Dedicated to eco. IVF - is it painful to undergo a transfer? There are cases when IVF is the only opportunity to get pregnant and give birth to a healthy child.

She explained how in vitro fertilization works and how many times it can be done.

Anastasia Mokrova Reproductologist, gynecologist at the Life Line reproduction center

1. There are cases when IVF is the only opportunity to get pregnant and give birth to a healthy child

The first is when a woman lacks both fallopian tubes (they were removed in previous operations due to an ectopic pregnancy, severe adhesions or inflammation). When they are not there, it is impossible to get pregnant naturally - only IVF.

The second case is a severe male factor, when either a chromosomal disorder is observed on the part of the man (and, as a consequence, a violation of spermatogenesis), or it is a late age, when stimulation of spermatogenesis will not lead to anything, or hormonal factors.

The third case is genetic. This means that the couple has severe chromosomal abnormalities that do not prevent them from living, but prevent them from giving birth to healthy children. In this case, an analysis is made not only of the existing 46 chromosomes that determine the genetic composition of the embryo, but also of changes in the karyotype, which can be decisive for each pair. Theoretically, such a couple can give birth to a healthy baby without intervention, but the likelihood of success is small.

2. IVF can help if a woman has exhausted ovaries or wants to have a baby while in menopause

After 36 years, a woman is at an advanced reproductive age (no matter how good she looks). The likelihood of conception is extremely reduced.

For some women, menopause or changes in the ovaries that reduce follicular reserve occur early. There is still menstruation, but the cells are no longer there, or they are of poor quality. In this case, an IVF program is carried out to obtain a healthy embryo and transfer it to the uterine cavity.

If a woman in menopause wants to get pregnant and carry a healthy child, we also resort to IVF. In this case, the egg of a healthy woman from 18 to 35 years old is taken, fertilized with the sperm of the patient’s partner, and the embryo is implanted into her using IVF.

3. IVF has contraindications

There are very few contraindications for IVF, but they do exist. This is a severe somatic pathology that is rare in women planning pregnancy. Such patients with heart disease, lung disease, and severe mental disorders usually do not reach reproductive specialists. However, if the disease is in remission and specialists give the go-ahead for pregnancy planning, we work with the patient.

Oncological diseases are an absolute contraindication for stimulation for IVF. The oncologist must conclude that the patient is in stable remission.

4. IVF is possible at any age from 18 years old

According to the law of the Russian Federation, the age at which a woman can undergo IVF is not limited and starts at 18 years old. With older couples, the issue of pregnancy is discussed individually. Some people can give birth to a healthy baby at the age of 50, while others experience difficulties at 35.

5. The older the woman, the less likely she is to get pregnant with IVF.

I have already said that after 36 years a woman enters a late reproductive age. By the age of 40, even with IVF, the pregnancy rate is no more than 15. This is due to a decrease in the number of cells produced by the ovaries and a deterioration in their quality. For comparison, the probability of pregnancy with IVF before this age is about 70%.

6. Success in IVF depends 50% on the man

I recommend that couples come together for their initial appointment with a fertility specialist. Based on the medical history, the doctor issues an individual list of examinations that a woman and a man need to undergo. It makes no sense for one woman to be examined. It happens that a couple beats around the bush for a long time, trying to determine the problem on the woman’s part, and only then does some serious male factor become clear.

7. Short IVF protocol - the most comfortable for a couple

This is the most gentle program that requires minimal physical and material costs. At the same time, it has virtually no complications (including ovarian hyperstimulation), and is preferred by reproductive specialists all over the world. Especially for women with a good follicular reserve.

According to a short protocol, stimulation begins on days 2-3 of the cycle (before this, the doctor performs an ultrasound examination) and lasts about two weeks. When the stimulation is completed, the reproductologist sees follicles of a certain size and prescribes a trigger drug in order to carry out the puncture on time and bring the cells to maximum maturity.

The second stage is transvaginal puncture. On the day of the puncture, the partner must also donate sperm.

The third stage is embryo transfer. Between the second and third stages, embryologists work to fertilize eggs and monitor the development of embryos. On the 5th-6th day of development, the couple is informed how many of them have been produced, what quality they are and how ready they are for transfer. A woman can find out about pregnancy 12 days after the puncture by doing a blood test for hCG.

I note that during IVF a woman may have more abundant discharge. It may seem to her that she is about to start ovulating, but in reality this is not the case, because the whole process is controlled by a fertility specialist. During the IVF process, a woman is prescribed vitamin therapy and blood thinning medications to reduce the risks of hypercoagulation (increased blood clotting) and blood clots.

8. Before and during IVF, avoid heavy physical activity and adjust your diet

During the period of preparation for pregnancy, it is better for a man to avoid alcohol, saunas and hot baths. When entering an IVF program, a couple is not recommended for heavy physical activity and active sex life - this can lead to the maturation of a large number of follicles, which will cause injury to the ovaries.

During IVF, I advise you to focus on protein foods (meat, poultry, fish, cottage cheese, seafood) and drink a lot (from 1.5 liters of liquid per day). This is necessary to ensure that you feel as comfortable as possible this month.

9. The IVF procedure is painless

Don't worry about this. Stimulation injections are inserted with a tiny needle into the subcutaneous fat layer of the abdomen and may cause very mild discomfort (but not pain). As for transvaginal puncture, it is done under intravenous anesthesia for 5 to 20 minutes. Immediately after, heaviness may be felt in the lower abdomen, but under the influence of the painkiller, the discomfort goes away. The patient is allowed to go home on the same day, and the next day she can work.

10. The average pregnancy rate as a result of IVF is 35-40%

These figures are relevant for both Russia and Western countries. The success of IVF depends on the age of the patient and her partner (the higher, the smaller it is), the quality of his spermogram, previous manipulations with the uterus (curettage, abortion, miscarriages, etc.). The quality of the cells also plays a role, but there is no way to know about this before IVF.

11. IVF has no side effects if you trust a competent specialist

If the patient follows all the recommendations, the only side effect is pregnancy and the birth of a healthy baby. At the same time, it is important to trust a competent reproductive specialist. If stimulation is performed incorrectly, ovarian hyperstimulation, intra-abdominal bleeding, and ectopic pregnancy are possible (extremely rare if there was already a pathology of the fallopian tubes).

12. A cold without complications is not an obstacle to IVF

If you do not take antibiotics and antiviral drugs, and you do not have a high temperature, then a cold will not affect IVF in any way. This does not impair the quality of cells and embryos.

But if there are complications after ARVI, then the embryo transfer is temporarily canceled. A man is also not recommended to take antibiotics two weeks before donating sperm.

Previously, after IVF there were indeed many cases of multiple pregnancies. Now reproductive specialists around the world recommend one embryo for transfer. This is done in order to get a healthy child.

Multiple pregnancy is difficult for the female body to bear, and often ends in premature birth, which is risky for children.

It is much better for the patient to become pregnant after the second embryo transfer than to immediately give birth to twins with cerebral palsy.

14. Children after IVF are no different from children conceived naturally

Of course, these children also suffer from acute respiratory infections, acute respiratory viral infections, they have a certain heredity, they may have somatic diseases, but in no case are they inferior to other children in physical development and mental potential.

15. There are no restrictions on the number of IVFs

Typically, patients undergo IVF until results are obtained. In this case, embryos can be used from the first program, which are frozen and stored for as long as the patient wishes. You can try again after an unsuccessful IVF attempt the next cycle or every other cycle. It is not advisable to wait 3, 4, 6 months, but I advise you to discuss the possible reason for not getting pregnant with a fertility specialist.

16. You can freeze your eggs “for the future”

Many couples do this. For example, if a man and woman in a couple are 33-34 years old, and they are planning a child by the age of 40, it makes sense to think about freezing oocytes - by this time the quality of their own cells will deteriorate.

This is also done when a woman is not sure about her partner or wants to have a child for herself in the future. Then no additional stimulation is required, you will only need to prepare the endometrium and conduct an examination of the body.

17. IVF can be done for free

To carry out IVF within the framework of the compulsory health insurance program, you need to contact your doctor at the antenatal clinic to receive a quota based on the results of tests and indications. This is done by doctors at the place of residence. I would like to note that in private clinics, reproductive specialists perform IVF only on the basis of ready-made referrals.

18. A single woman can also undergo an IVF program

For this purpose, donor sperm is used from a donor bank, which undergoes a thorough examination and is as fertile as possible.

19. There is a relationship between IVF and cesarean section

Often, women after IVF undergo a cesarean section during childbirth. This happens because their body has already undergone a single operation, there is adhesions in the abdominal cavity, and a somatic history. Plus, for many women after IVF, pregnancy is a very long-awaited pregnancy, they worry about everything and are simply not in the mood for a natural birth.

I am for natural childbirth (this is right for mother and baby). But it all depends on the indications at 38-39 weeks of pregnancy and the woman’s mood.

He may be a wonderful professional, but he will not suit the couple intuitively, you will be uncomfortable. This is a very important factor, as is the number of patients in the corridor. A doctor who sees 2-3 patients a day is probably not in great demand. If patients tell their friends about the doctor, share reviews and return to him for subsequent children, this is an indicator of the qualifications and human attitude towards the couple.

The choice of clinic is not of great importance, because completely different specialists can be gathered in one medical institution where IVF is performed.

The clinic may be young, but there is a real team working there. Price also does not play a determining role; in this case, advertising may simply work.

Most expectant mothers are very worried about whether IVF is painful, what the expected sensations are, and whether bleeding is possible. Therefore, in order to get rid of fears, it is necessary to analyze the replanting process in detail.

Woman's behavior during transfer

The doctor decides how the embryo transfer should take place. You shouldn’t think that transferring embryos into the uterus will be painful. The procedure is completely painless, only slight discomfort is possible. For this reason, anesthesia is not used.

The patient is positioned on the gynecological chair, and then a flexible catheter is inserted into the canal. It is along this path that the embryos follow. Basically, two or three embryos are implanted, the remaining surviving embryos, after successful fertilization in the hospital, are frozen. If the procedure is unsuccessful, the woman can freely rely on frozen embryos and try again in the future.

When embryo transfer is carried out, the expectant mother should not tense up, her body should be relaxed as much as possible. The patient is advised not to strain the lower abdomen, so the catheter will be inserted more gently. As soon as the embryo transfer is completed, the patient remains lying down for about half an hour and does not get up from the chair. After the procedure is completed, some mothers remain in the hospital for 24 hours, and some go home, but with an escort.

You should not constantly think about the result of the procedure. There are times when a girl is very nervous at the moment; if she wishes, she has the right to stay in the hospital for several days. This process is influenced by a psychological barrier and the state of the nervous system. Some people feel good at home, where their relatives are nearby, while others feel more comfortable staying under medical supervision.

Post-transfer period

Embryo transfer does not hurt at all. After the procedure itself, there should also be no sensation of pain. It is imperative to follow all doctor’s recommendations regarding hormonal support. These instructions are provided by the doctor, this is a clearly indicated schedule.

Basically, after the transfer process, progesterone and human chorionic gonadotropin are prescribed. The important point is to keep yourself in control, not to worry, not to be nervous, and also to receive only positive things from the life around you.

Every day the woman weighs herself and controls how often and in what quantity she urinates. Pulse and abdominal size are also measured. If certain abnormalities or bleeding occur, you should immediately contact the IVF center.

At the center, the mother receives sick leave for ten days. This is necessary so that she is completely calm during this period. Further, if sick leave is needed, the pregnant woman contacts her gynecologist.

Painful sensations when replanting

According to studies, there is no pain for the patient when embryos are transferred during IVF. These are quite rare situations that occur only in the presence of a strong bend of the uterus. If the process was painless, then there is every chance of a successful result. If pain and bleeding occur, it turns out that the replantation was unsuccessful, therefore, next time the doctor should think through everything thoroughly.

There are cases in which it is necessary to dilate the uterus and use another catheter. After the insertion of the catheter is painful, the girl needs to be reassured; she should get used to the foreign object in her body. But for the process to be truly effective, the doctor uses the right treatment.

In cases of infertility, extracorporeal embryo transfer into the female uterus is used. This is artificial insemination. Naturally, you want the procedure to end in a successful pregnancy, but each stage of the procedure is performed with full responsibility and compliance with the doctor’s instructions. After the procedure, the patient is recommended to remain in a supine position.

When women come to have IVF, they have already gone through certain nervous disorders, tensions, and stress. Therefore, whether IVF is painful or not depends on overcoming the psychological barrier. When a girl is completely calm, not worried and in a good mood, then she sets herself up for a positive result.

Thus, speaking about the topic of whether embryo transfer during IVF is painful or not, it should be noted that, first of all, the expectant mother can endure unpleasant sensations, but not pain. You need a positive attitude and faith in an effective result. The presence of stressful situations, nervous experiences, and hysteria is not desirable. It is recommended to communicate with friends and relatives, not to exert yourself physically, and to avoid unpleasant moments and bad moods.

Today, the IVF method has ceased to be something fantastic and has gone beyond the walls of scientific laboratories into everyday life. In vitro fertilization fulfills the dream of many couples who, just a couple of decades ago, were doomed to an infertile marriage.

The IVF method, if we consider it without details, includes only 4 stages:

1. Stimulation of multiovulation (for the maturation of several follicles in the current cycle).

2. Puncture of follicles.

3. Fertilization of eggs and cultivation of embryos.

4. Embryo transfer.

14 days after embryo transfer, an hCG test is performed to understand whether pregnancy has occurred.

After embryo transfer, the doctor gives recommendations - both on drug support and on lifestyle and behavior. The recommendations are very general, for example: “limit your sex life, physical activity, but do something that will distract you from waiting for the result of a pregnancy test.”

Of course, when preparing for the IVF protocol, doctors focus directly on the procedures up to point 4 inclusive. When preparing for IVF, women most often worry about hormonal therapy (“will I suddenly get fat?”), about physical pain and, in fact, about the result—whether it will work or not.

I’ll tell you about my experience; perhaps my story will change someone’s view of the procedure and help them prepare better.

My experience is 4 IVF attempts (one of them is cryotransfer, that is, the transfer of previously frozen embryos) within one year.

Up to a certain point, I believed that IVF would never affect me - it was something from another reality, like flying into space. Circumstances turned out differently and in vitro fertilization became my only way to become the mother of my own child. The option of having an adopted child always exists, but I was not ready for it either then or now.

Stimulation of multiovulation is a very simple step. Just give injections at a certain time every day and periodically go for monitoring. This hormonal stimulation had no effect on weight. Follicle puncture scared me only the first time, but this is also a fairly simple procedure from the patient’s point of view. Follow all the doctors' recommendations and everything will go smoothly. It is carried out under general anesthesia, the recovery for me personally was quick, there were no consequences, no painful sensations - I slept under anesthesia, lay down, got up and went about my business.

Stage 3 - fertilization and cultivation - occurs without the participation of the patient; the doctor, at some intervals, simply notifies about the progress of this stage by phone - how many eggs have been fertilized, how many and what quality of embryos have been produced.

Embryo transfer takes only a few minutes and is no more unpleasant than a regular gynecological examination. After the transfer, it is recommended to lie down for about half an hour and then you can go home and do your usual activities, following the recommendations.

In my opinion, the most difficult stage is the one not announced by doctors, the fifth is waiting for the result. What to do 14 days before the pregnancy test? Those women who are forced to resort to the IVF method, as a rule, have already gone through all 7 circles of hell on the path to motherhood and very much count on a positive result. However, the result here cannot be guaranteed by anyone! The success of the procedure depends on too many factors; neither doctors nor patients can foresee and know everything! And if there is no pregnancy after IVF, doctors can only guess what exactly went wrong, but not know for sure.

I recommend preparing psychologically for the fact that the 14 days between embryo transfer and hCG analysis will become your personal hell. It is impossible to be 100% distracted from thoughts about what is happening inside you. Even the most microscopic thought about this grows to catastrophic proportions. I am not a suspicious person at all, I stand firmly on the ground, I am a realist, I know how to manage emotions due to professional deformation, my strength is logic and composure.

However, in the first protocol, waiting for the results knocked me off my feet, I was simply going crazy! Every second I worried - what if I stood up too quickly? What if I ate something wrong? What if my negative thoughts have an impact? I had a bad dream, what if it doesn’t work out because of this? God, I sneezed, what should I do, they could fly out of me! Plus, the protocol was unsuccessful, that is, pregnancy did not occur. Despite my motto: “We hope for the best, but prepare for the worst,” I was not ready for such a trip. Physically I wasn’t hurt at all, but mentally... I was ready to go out the window...

Over the next 3 days, which I spent in tears, cigarettes (and I haven’t smoked for more than 10 years!) and coffee, I lost 10 kilograms. Fortunately, my family and my husband provided strong support. My husband and I made a long-term plan for further treatment. Drawing up a plan, step-by-step actions and always discussing them with your spouse helps a lot. Thus, you say out loud that life does not stop there and the future is in your hands! After the protocol, the body needs rest to recover.

I went on vacation, new experiences and a change of scenery really helped me recover mentally. Your IVF budget should include a provision for recovery, for example through holidays. The main thing is to switch your head!

I approached the next protocol with a more sober head and was not particularly focused on a positive result. Of course, it was impossible not to think about the outcome of the protocol at all during the fifth stage, but thanks to the fact that my husband devoted these crazy 14 days entirely to organizing our leisure time, everything went much calmer.

In the third protocol, I finally understood the reason for our failures. Before that, I thought a lot, because there are a lot of factors and success is influenced by both the quality of the embryos and the ability of the female body to accept a “foreign element.” The third, cryoprotocol, also did not bring us the long-awaited news of pregnancy. If we think logically, then in standard protocols the woman’s body is first subjected to very cruel tests and one can consider the possibility that for some reason it rejects the embryos. In the cryoprotocol, embryos are implanted into my completely healthy and rested body.

But they simply don’t survive and my body has absolutely nothing to do with it. Exceptional quality of embryos. Logical thinking helped me turn off my emotions this time and prepare for the next protocol. Logically, we “entered” the fourth protocol with preliminary preparation and elaboration of my theory. Since, after all, my worldview is based on logic, I was afraid of only one thing - that my conclusions would turn out to be erroneous. In this case, I simply didn’t know what to do next.

After all, I could spend my whole life trying in vain! Is this life? I gave myself an instruction - in case of failure, try a couple more times in order to make sure of the futility, and then give up all attempts and learn to live without thoughts of procreation. With one eye I even read some articles and interviews on the topic of forced, barren life. From a physiological point of view, our fourth protocol should have been unsuccessful. Just before the transfer, something went wrong with the previous patient in the operating room, I saw the condition of my doctor. Although she tried her best to hold on, it was clear that their situation was far from standard and the doctor was nervous.

After the transfer, I was driving home and almost got into an accident, I was very scared. Then, for 14 days of waiting, I worked like hell, not thinking about the result at all. But it turned out that logic won and we saw the coveted two stripes. By the way, I was completely unprepared for two stripes, as I was too carried away by “running in circles” and trying to get pregnant. All I knew about pregnancy was that it lasted 9 months. I learned all the stages and subtleties already in the process.

To summarize briefly:

1) get ready for a strong psychological attack of negative thoughts, while your own consciousness will go on the attack, and it’s the hardest thing to fight!
2) include funds in your IVF budget for restoring the body in case of failure, for example, for a vacation (preferably if it is some kind of non-standard vacation, that is, if you usually prefer a beach vacation, take an excursion tour).
3) it will be difficult without the support of your spouse; make sure in advance that he is your rock, fortress, feather bed, warm waves and gentle sun.
4) think in advance that you are facing the worst 14 days of your life and work out a plan for how to occupy your thoughts during this difficult time of waiting.
5) make plans for the future, carefully think through and calculate what and how you will do to achieve your goal (several IVF attempts, use of donor material, adopted child), be sure to discuss these plans with your spouse. Why is it important to discuss every nuance with your spouse? For example, you may be ready for an adopted child, but he is not. This is not his fault; it is difficult to make such a decision in 1 minute. Discuss everything.

IVF is the same natural disaster for a family as the first joint renovation, vacation, buying an apartment, or organizing a wedding. But, if you are each other’s support and are moving towards the same goal, then this will only strengthen your relationship, regardless of the result. And in an ideal case, it will also increase your family.

Today I look at my child, whom I got through a long and difficult path, and cry with happiness, no matter how trite it may sound. This beautiful little man is definitely worth all the nightmares I had to go through to meet him. I have already begun to forget how for more than 10 years I cried every month at the onset of my critical days. All the bad things will be forgotten sooner or later, and this happiness will remain in our family forever.

Tatiana K.

My name is Tatyana, I am 28 years old. In 1998, in St. Petersburg, I underwent the procedure of in vitro fertilization, but the result, alas, was disastrous.

Firstly, the entire process - from the moment of collecting the necessary tests to the last stage - lasted from October to July. The embryo was implanted into the uterus on May 14. After this, the results of two pregnancy tests turned out to be radically opposite: a blood test showed a positive result, an ultrasound said the opposite. In the end, an ectopic pregnancy was determined. The result is surgery and elimination of one pipe. All this happened only on July 24th. So my memories are not the best.

Even now, when I write these lines, I feel terribly painful - despite the fact that a lot of time has passed, and, it would seem, everything should already be in the past. What I felt after the operation is very difficult to convey to someone who has not been through it all, so that they can truly imagine and understand my experiences. God grant that no one has to experience what I experienced. This trauma - and not so much physical as moral - I think will remain for a long time.

The hardest thing for me then was that the people involved in this procedure could not give any answer as to what was happening to my body, and only two months later the diagnosis was finally made. Don't worry, I don't want to blame anyone. Of course, it’s clear: everyone does their part of the work, we are all human and no one is immune from mistakes. But what is it like for a person who puts himself at the complete disposal of doctors, entrusts his life, his destiny into their hands?! I would like to make a small but very important request to all medical workers directly related to the implementation of IVF. Please arrange psychological support for women who have gone through this whole process and found out about the negative result. Do it for free, because you probably know that we, who came to you, have already spent a lot of effort, health and money. Many of us have been saving for years in the hope that this last chance will bring good luck. Listen to the person who was destined to go through all this.

I apologize if I offended anyone in any way. I just briefly told my IVF story - unfortunately, unlike a fairy tale, it does not have a happy ending. Good luck to everyone and good health.

“I succeeded in IVF!”

Natalya A.

The feeling of happiness and joy that our son gives us takes the painful days and years of waiting and failure far into the past. Our son is already 6.5 months old. Our first attempt at IVF was successful.

Over the course of 5 years, my husband and I underwent various examinations and courses of treatment. We consistently tried everything: hormonal therapy, laparoscopy and much more, leaving IVF for ourselves “for last” - as the very last option. Doctors had long advised us to take this step, but I stubbornly resisted. I believed that this was unnatural, that this sacrament should happen as nature predetermined, I was afraid for the health of the child, I was afraid of strong hormonal therapy, I simply could not imagine how a child would be conceived within the walls of a laboratory, and not in my body . And even with the help of people strangers to me. What effect will this have on the child’s attitude towards me and towards his father? Will he be a stressed child?

But we had no other way, we found ourselves in a dead end - as it turned out, a happy one.

We were told in detail how the whole procedure would take place and what elements it consists of. It turned out that to increase the likelihood of a positive outcome, a gentle dose of hormonal stimulation was enough for me. It must be said that the most unpleasant physiological sensation in the entire IVF procedure is the retrieval of eggs. The procedure is painful, it was carried out without anesthesia, but the pain is short-lived.

I turned out to be a “fruitful” woman - 7 eggs were taken from me at once. Then there was a painful wait. I couldn’t shake the feeling that part of me remained in the hospital. As it turned out, out of 7 eggs, only two were fertilized by my husband’s sperm (by the way, I always dreamed of twins), and they were implanted in my uterus.

Embryo transfer is completely painless, but the waiting is painful. Both my husband and I were very skeptical. But - lo and behold! - menstruation was delayed by 2 days, a hormonal test confirmed the presence of a singleton pregnancy. I continued to not believe, and neither did my husband. But the miracle really happened. One embryo implanted.

Pregnancy was absolutely no different from normal. I felt great, but due to the low location of the placenta (as doctors say, low placentation) and the associated threat of miscarriage, I had to be very careful. I was in the hospital several times, I was very nervous, which resulted in high uterine tone. And now I understand that I should have enjoyed every day of this long-awaited pregnancy.

Doctors advised me to give birth by caesarean section in order - due to the same low placentation - to reduce the risk to a minimum. I really wanted to give birth myself and at least in this way be natural in front of nature and the child. But the situation was in favor of a caesarean section. Now I don't even regret it.

A wonderful boy was born, weighing 3,950 kg and very similar to his dad. The thought that when the baby was born, I would be under anesthesia, I wouldn’t see him, I wouldn’t be able to put him to my breast, and he would be taken away from me and left alone was depressing. But I tried to quickly get to my feet and take the baby to my room. And the milk came quickly, although they say that after a caesarean section it appears later. Now, when I look into my son’s eyes and see with what love he looks at me and his father, all my worries that I wrote about at the beginning seem stupid, I am happy that I decided on IVF. We have a healthy baby growing up, and thank God that my husband and I had the patience, understanding and health to reach the end, that we were helped and guided along the way by highly professional doctors, thanks to whose great desire and efforts our dream became a reality.