PEOPLE WITHOUT PHOTO DO NOT WRITE TO ME. I ASK YOU VERY MUCH
he should be a little sporty, strong, cool, not aggressive, stylish and cool by 200 percent, and most importantly, I come first for him. (just kidding) I’ll write later or tell you in person.
a wealthy man who is not greedy for gratitude...
I don’t need furs, diamonds, limousines! I want real sincere love, I want cute poems via SMS, I want a scarlet rose, I want
unexpected meetings, surprises.
Are there any romantics or have you already moved on?
generous, wealthy, affectionate, gentle...
worthy exchange...
confident, strong, decisive)
The one that will give me goosebumps
a respectable and generous man...
Prince on an airplane carpet!
“I want passionate, tender love! The unity of our souls and bodies. I live with only one hope, That you want the same. I know that
One morning I'll wake up in your arms. And I will understand that the wise voice in my mind has died down. There is nothing, just silence.
A moment of eternal beauty. Now we have one soul. You are me, I am you." (momentary weakness)
Oh yes) I love self-sufficient, handsome, tall boys! Assess your chances right away guys!
I delete without reading:
- questionnaires without photos
Married and sick people don't bother me! I don't provide sex for money!
A prince...Like in a fairy tale: on a white horse. Since horses are no longer relevant today, we will consider other options.
A cool guy or girl with whom you can have a great time, I don’t want to get married but I want to live for my own pleasure
The one who does more than he talks
Tall, attractive! And also an intelligent and interesting person! Please do not disturb without a photo! If there is no answer, you
I'm not a match!
A person needs a person!:) Smart, with a sense of humor, generous, kind, adequate...
It's nice to be next to a person who keeps you on your toes...Next to whom you want to become better, to grow...So that he
was proud of you...
a normal guy who would completely satisfy me
A real man: smart, strong, courageous, purposeful...
a potential head of the family, at the same time kind, gentle, cheerful, romantic, ready to throw the world at the feet of his beloved...
I dream of finding an interesting, promising, independent young man. The subject of my girlish dreams must have a diploma
higher education,
earn good money and know at least one foreign language.
He must also be nice
a gentle and thoughtful creature.
Dear men, before writing me a note about the proposition “sex 1-2 times, caresses in different places”, fade away,
Who might have sunk... And why in such a situation, my choice is to turn on you, and there are quite a few such candidates... And
in the future, if I needed more than this, in real life you can view it without problems and the profiles on the site are not
required...
the one who is looking for me...
But seriously, I'm looking for a real man, strong, courageous, responsible, with whom I would feel
secure and confident.(I like tall guys, not too skinny!) Romantic, with a sense of humor, self-sufficient...
I will not answer those who write illiterately!
a real stallion...
Lost teddy bear... :)
I'm allergic to boring...
I don’t care what you have now, what matters to me is the perspective, what you can achieve... No, not because I
mercantile bitch, so that I don’t die of boredom from your stupidity!) I don’t need a handsome man, but you have to take care of yourself,
because a man simply has to be well-groomed!)
- “You came from the village, the train brought you”? - Terminonovo speed up with the red cross that is on the right
The top corner is finished!
- I am not interested in people under 25 years old (does not apply to women).
- If you have “fingers like a fan, snot bubbles, a cross on your belly and a scarred butt”... I’m unlikely to keep you company in
"Walking with the breeze" on your "super-duper" BMW!
And one more thing: I do not provide any services, ask for help from girls who have a pink profile frame.
Good luck!
We're all looking for one thing here: relief from boredom. and it’s not about loneliness, not about sex, we’re all just so fucking bored with life
wealthy generous smart man
crocodile Gena...certainly someone, but definitely not a lover!) and don’t invite me to visit) for those who are slow-witted, I repeat - don’t offer sex!
Without photos - straight away, no offense, let's move on...
And one more thing... you can only wink at those who don’t know the letters!
Z.Z.Y. Comments and complaints from 8-00 to 23-00 in the diary! ;-)
P.S. IF I'M ON THE SITE, IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT I'M ON HERE ALL THE TIME!
An active, positive, stylish personality with a cute face and an excellent sense of humor:)))
P.S. guys, NO PHOTO - don't write or wink! HOW MUCH CAN YOU REPEAT!!!
A normal, sensible man. For me, the most important thing is that quantity turns into quality. It’s not a problem to find a guy, the problem is to find a sincere and real Person, and not a lying, mean, walking trash. I know how to appreciate those who can’t live without me... ...and I don’t chase those who are happy without me!
An interesting interlocutor, with a bewitching look and the body of Apollo...)
A man from whom you won’t want to leave in search of someone better
A MAN to be a little more beautiful than a monkey, but with a big human heart and soul
A man! Who can give me pleasure and bring me to orgasm. And not a man who cums in 5 minutes and at the same time thinks that he is a sexual giant. I don’t waste my precious time on cocks that don’t give me the feeling of having sex while driving and now. My dear losers, you always want to be a woman’s only love, but alas, you are the weakest link, I will be your punishment, and especially the last in your life. I’m once again convinced that everyone around me is fucking everywhere. And that without you men and swamis, I don’t have the same shit! You bolobols, imaginary mattresses! Your pockets only increase when you see a sexy girl who you want to fuck, but even so no longer any non-material factor. Unlike you cables, it’s not hard for me to say n*y, fucked up. E*i. Unlike you, in the wild, a male, when choosing a female, behaves like a real man, and you “men” are like stupid animal. And how pathetic you look when they refuse to go to bed, your pathetic excuse immediately sounds: That I didn’t even give a fuck about you and didn’t even want to, and then the low phrase: you’ll come and ask for it yourself. My dear men with We won’t ask for such a small thing as yours, much less crawl. Your little thing is rattling so much in your pants, for God's sake don't give a fuck, contact famous doctors who will help you, buy an ointment that will increase your deficiency. Trainer
at home with your hands so that you have a good hard-on, and train so that like the Genie crawls out of the lamp! Otherwise, don’t fuck your brains when you’re idle, you’ll have pity. Don’t dare call yourself a man when you can’t thrust like a man. We only lose our temper because- for the fact that you dissatisfy, We are insane because you are not allowed to bring you to orgasm. THINK!
What did you want! Beautiful all-Bitches!
I want to look for a man for all the best that there is in the world)
if you are a greedy man and don’t understand that a beautiful woman is not only admiring glances, compliments, but also
expenses - please don’t write to me, don’t waste my or your time :) and don’t be offended - don’t you know the truth
offended...
Attention! I'm not interested in sex! money for it - even more so! ! !
I'm here just to fill the evenings - offer: tea, coffee, cappuccino :)
worthy! Dear men, if you are stable
average income or lower and if you are looking for cheap sex
for one time or or just not ready to take care of
a woman doesn't need to waste my time and yours
You're married and settled, but you really want something exciting and without consequences.
A real man, corny?! But to my great regret there are very few of them now! A man who is smart enough
to stand firmly on your feet, not just chase pretty faces, and most importantly, don’t say what you don’t
fulfills!
purposeful, responsible, with a good sense of humor, generous, kind and beautiful...)
A person with whom it is fun, interesting and cozy...
A man who is confident... but not arrogant...
smart... but not boring... tender... but not sticky...
bright, but so as not to go blind...
I support domestic manufacturers....please!!! do not write persons of Caucasian nationality, sexually preoccupied,
married people and sponsors.... I don’t need your services....)))
If love can be described in words, then it is not love. After all, it is inexplicable. Do you know how the wind blows? you feel it
on the skin...you hear its smell...you think with its thoughts...but you don’t see it?! So he lives in our lives... but it’s like he’s
No.
I'm looking for your eyes...I'm touching you with my thoughts. I'm trying to find familiar features in the reflection, I'm looking out for you from millions.
Who am I looking for? - simple answer! - a man! In the full sense of the word!!! - with whom it is not scary to spend time without looking back; about sex
to remember as bliss; I’m tired of being the head, the breadwinner and……. I want to be just a woman, a lover, I just
I want a person with + and -
I don't know how to lisp and call you a cat if you really are an idiot)
P.S..If someone is not happy with something, our sympathy is mutual)
Don't offer love to a boyfriend or girlfriend, because you can't buy it for money, and you can't take it for “just like that.”
It would be bad to know a nice guy with a seemingly simple language, who knows the value of words and almost, who understands and vows... oh! But it got carried away, there are few princes lost in our hour, it’s hard to get rid of me.
And now I haven’t been looking for anyone for a long time... I’m just sleeping...
I want to know a good person with a correct value system, high moral values and a good sense of humor;)
I would like to...
Treat me like a child, adore me, try hard for me, control me, teach me... I will kick, get angry, but if you succeed, you will raise a beautiful woman...
Never lay your hand on me. I will not be afraid of you, but I will stop respecting you, and you will lose the most precious thing you have in life...
Never lie. After all, I won’t eat you for telling the truth. You can't come because you're sitting with friends? It's not scary, just tell the truth...I will understand! But the main thing is on time...
Take care of me. Ask me to call when I arrive, don’t let me go to nightclubs, don’t give a damn about the fact that it pisses me off. Indifference is even more infuriating. I appreciate your concern.. I swear...
Do not be shy. I belong. You can tell me everything. No money? We will sit on a bench in -30 degrees and warm ourselves with kisses.. Are you tired of work, of life, of torn jeans? Complain to me, I will pity you.. Are you in tears? There is no need to hide this. You need to hide your heartlessness.
I don't need a handsome man. I'm not interested in your complex face. Details are important to me: your eyelashes, lips, the way you look...
I don’t care what you have now, what’s important to me is the prospect, what you can achieve... No, not because I’m a mercantile bitch, but so that I don’t die of boredom from your stupidity)...
Forgive me... My tardiness, a lot of mascara on my eyelashes, stupid insults... Forgive me. You are wise.
No... It’s not the same... Make sure that I’m not late, don’t put on makeup and have nothing to be offended by... You’re wise...
Tame me. Make me yours I am independent, but I really want to depend on you. Tie me to you. Do not let me go.. . Love me sincerely... and you are a winner...
Don't talk about love too early. You'll scare me. But don't delay. After all, I won't waste time on someone who doesn't love me...
Don't force me to love... Wait, please. You are a man. Let me figure it out for myself...
Believe me! After all, if you do everything right, there is no need for me to deceive you. Be real, if you are not who you say you are, it will be very difficult for you...
Be afraid of losing me... After all, I always have somewhere to go.. I can handle being alone... I am self-sufficient...
Don’t betray me... as a woman... Break up with me and go for a walk.. But don’t lie to me... I will believe you... but if I find out, I won’t be in your life anymore... Never. I will forgive, but I will not forget...
A man is not judged by his rank,
Not for the money he brings into the house,
And a man is not judged by his height,
After all, he is not judged by his age.
They are not judged by dexterity and strength,
And not because of glory, which is sometimes empty,
Not because he's handsome-
After all, external beauty will fade...
They judge for the wrong reason
That everyone around him takes an example from him...
and in relation to men and women...
And this is the main court...
A man who won’t have to change his bed linen!
The most frequently asked questions and my answers to them...
1.HE: We haven’t met before?
Me: Perhaps I work at the reception desk of a dermatovenous dispensary!
2.HE: It seems I saw you somewhere...?!
Me: Yes, and that's why I don't go there anymore!
3.OH: Is this place nearby free?
Me: Yes, mine will also be free if you sit down!
4.HE: What if we go to my place?
Me: I'm not sure that the two of us can fit into one trash heap!
5.HE: What sign were you born under?
Me: No entry allowed!
6.HE: What kind of eggs do you like for breakfast?
Me: Not fertilizing!
7.HE: Come on, you're here for the same reason as me!
Me: Really?!?! To take pictures of cute boys?
8.HE: I'm here to make your wildest fantasies come true!
Me: Are you saying...that you have a German Shepherd and a goat?
9. HIM: I want to give myself to you!
Me: Thank you) but I don’t accept cheap gifts!
10. HE: For your sake I will go to the ends of the world!
Me: Yes...? Could you stay there?
11. HIM: If I could see naked, I would die of happiness!
Me: Yeah... The main thing is that I don’t die of laughter when YOU undress)
12.HE: What do you do to look so good?
Me: I do the opposite of what you do!
13.HE: You have high self-esteem!
Me: It’s a big mistake to dream about yourself more than you should and value yourself lower than you are worth!
14. AND FINALLY! The most frequently asked question!
HE: What do you do in life?
Me: I'm a transvestite!
Don't repeat mistakes)
Pivet))) I'm Masha, I'm looking for a guy, handsome, smart, cheerful, not much romance))) Who will look after me and then be able to love me and make me the happiest......
It is difficult and useless to describe the man I would like to meet. True affection rarely flares up instantly. First of all, a man must be loved. After all, if there is no love, neither beauty, nor wealth, nor other virtues will please. There is a specific man who
"hurts". Why? Inexplicable. I believe that he should be an interesting person, a person from whom you can learn something, next to whom you will never cease to be surprised and you will develop all the time. Self-confident, accomplished in life, purposeful, stylish, spiritual.
The main thing is understanding, intelligent and with a sense of humor. Dark or light? It's in the mood. He must keep me from
stopping a galloping horse and passing copper pipes, he must say: “Trust me!” And he will do everything himself, and then he will imprison me
he will lead this horse like a queen through copper pipes! He is also a good electrician and gardener, and listens to Wagner,
appreciates Jarmusch, sometimes vacations in Ibiza and breeds pigeons! He has the talent to make me happy. It's simple - he
he just loves me!
I trust folk wisdom - I meet you by my clothes, but I see you off by my mind! You couldn't say any wiser. External appearance and inner world
interconnected.
!It has long been noticed how ugly a Diver is in a spacesuit
But undoubtedly there is a Woman in the world,
that I would give myself to such a thing.
Perhaps he will come out of the water away,
hung with the ends of seaweed,
and tonight will be his night,
filled with a lot of pleasures (Not this time, not another time like this).
That Woman refused many.
She definitely needs a Diver.
Rubber.Steel.Lead-legged.
At least you're not rubber, but you're slippery.
And disgusting, especially naked.
But the Woman is waiting for you too.
Because that's exactly what she needs!
We often meet people who, due to certain qualities, do not at all fit the criteria of our fictional
ideal... but there is something in them that makes it interesting, easy and simple for us to interact with them! Therefore, I think it is inappropriate
write something like: “I’m looking for a tall, brown-eyed brunette...” I’m looking for a man who behaves like a man and matches
definition: Taller, stronger, and maybe smarter (a little:)
Only a confident woman who loves herself will attract men, and a sheep will only attract rams.
There are so many people you can go to bed with...
There are so few people with whom you want to wake up...
And life weaves us like a gimp...
Shifting, as if doing fortune-telling with a saucer.
We rush about: - work... life... affairs...
Those who want to hear must still listen...
And as you run, you only notice bodies...
Stop to see the soul.
We choose with our hearts - with our minds...
Sometimes we are afraid to smile, to smile,
But we open our souls only to those
The one you want to wake up with.
A man who is stronger than me!
a man who is smarter than me!
a man who is more successful than me!
“Only Mother is worthy of love”...
A man! your protection from everything and everyone :-)
a person who can bring you to ecstasy
I am amazed by people who begin to describe themselves and list a list of ideals and requirements for their companions. After all, that
the moment when you want to give a damn about all your hitherto invented demands, moreover, you will be ready to accept the most
ridiculous shortcomings of a person - then this will be YOUR very “who I want to find”
Interesting both in life and in communication, purposeful, with developed intelligence, a sense of humor and tact, courageous, confident in himself and in his actions, loyal, honest and simply a good and kind person.
Next to whom you want to become better, grow...
A man should be brief in words and limitless in actions...
A man whose words and actions coincide
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About me
First of all, I would like to kindly thank all visitors, and most importantly, readers (because not everyone bothers to read, believing that a photograph is a sufficient reason to get acquainted) of my page for their attention and wish each of you to find what you are looking for and not be disappointed in your own expectations!
I am aware that there are many people in the world smarter, more talented, more beautiful than me. Without a doubt, this fact makes me happy and gives me an incentive to develop and improve.
However, here and now I am a woman who has personal freedom and freedom of choice, and I want to exchange this freedom for something, in my opinion, more valuable. If a dating site can help me achieve this, long live the dating site! I am quite arrogant and to a certain extent naive to hope for a happy meeting in the vastness of virtual reality, perhaps also because I do not have the time and opportunity for more “humane” ways of meeting people.
The myth that a beautiful woman cannot be smart has been dispelled by thousands of female examples. I am one of their number, it will be said without excessive modesty. I am sure that an intelligent woman simply cannot afford to be ugly.
I'm not a star or a queen. My ambition has completely atrophied. God forbid you think that I am arrogant. I dare to hope that I am a normal girl in exactly the context in which you understand this expression “normal girl”.
Who I want to find:
Dear men!
Do you believe in love?
I believe! It is for this reason that such an “adult” girl is still in splendid isolation and looks around, hoping to find one single representative of the strong half of humanity, with whom the creation of the world and the chronicle of life will begin just for her. In fact, this entire text array is intended for one single person who will read, evaluate, penetrate into the essence of what was said and understand that it was me that he was looking for all his life. Everyone else will become my grateful readers, and I sincerely appreciate your attention!
Therefore, I will immediately ask the “passengers”, “flying by”, “loitering”, “creeping by”, “adventure seekers”, and those same ones who, when filling out their questionnaires, tick the “sex once or twice” box, to self-destruct. By the way, I always wanted to ask how you connect the point “love, relationships” with the point “sex for once or twice”? Or should the sequence be clearly followed in this case?)
Do you want to defend your right to freedom of expression? Please! I will be happy to get acquainted with your point of view, but I will not enter into a discussion. Sorry! But thanks for your efforts!
About the purpose of dating: I have a very specific purpose of dating. I'm looking for a man who is smart, confident, self-sufficient and generous. A man who knows how to respect, appreciate and love a woman. It was not for nothing that I used this phrase “knows how to respect, appreciate, love...” Because many people simply don’t know this. A man who wants not only to take, but also to give something in return (Remember the wisdom: before you drink from a vessel, you need to fill it).
Do you have such a man in mind? Tell him about me.
About the form of communication: I don’t like the sluggish exchange of remarks on the site. Moreover, I do not always have the opportunity and time to correspond. Therefore, I will ask forgiveness from everyone to whom I answer late or do not answer at all. If you are a fan of correspondence, please, I will leave you my email address or ICQ number.
I apologize in advance to those to whom I did not respond promptly or at all. In general, please pay attention to the envelope in your message. Perhaps I just haven’t had time to read what you wrote to me or I didn’t have enough time to respond.
Please don't wink! Don't shower the photo with vulgar compliments. Do not make sarcastic remarks unless you are sorry for your time. I believe that you could spend it more effectively than poring over angry lampoons. Let everyone remain to their own opinion. I do not pretend to be the ultimate truth and am writing to an addressee who identifies himself.
Although even in your impulse to criticize me, I like you. Thanks for your efforts!
Despite the very clear goals of my stay here, I don’t mind talking to girls. I’ve been in Minsk for six months and I don’t have many girlfriends here. If you have the same problem, girls, let me know! Yes, it’s true, it’s very difficult and lonely to be alone in a big city. I'm not ashamed to admit it.
I will try to reflect my most vivid impressions in my diary. The first entry is already there and this reading will be useful to absolutely everyone. I'm waiting for your comments. So stay with me. And thank you for having the patience to read all this!
Dear editors of periodicals! I am considering job offers)
Gentlemen! Share your positive dating experience on the site. I’m already fed up with these mournful stories about how “there are no normal people here.” At the same time, everyone who says this clearly considers himself a happy exception to the rule. I think everyone has their own criteria for “normal.” But still......I will be grateful for the destruction of this myth!
The original text was actually written by me (this is for those who question and doubt), if you read plagiarism somewhere, tell me! Well, in general, if the author’s work is analyzed for quotes, this is a sign of popularity among the people! Nice!
As a result, I would like to wish you again and again to believe in miracles, not to forget about true values and to love each other!
Thank you for attention!
And as a comment in her diary, the young lady wrote down one of the messages that came to her:
I didn't even read your profile. A lot of text - it’s better to look through 10 others during this time
I don’t know about men, but most of us, representatives of the fair sex, have imagined since childhood what kind of boy, boyfriend, boyfriend, husband we want. We dream, but our dreams, for some reason, do not lead us to the men we imagined.
QUESTIONNAIRE FOR WISHES FULFILLMENT
I don’t know about men, but most of us, representatives of the fair sex, have imagined since childhood what kind of boy, boyfriend, boyfriend, husband we want. We dream, but our dreams, for some reason, do not lead us to the men we imagined.
If you believe that the Universe is ready to fulfill all your desires, then you need to learn to dream correctly - in detail and wisely.
Because, well, what kind of man do you want? Handsome, smart, rich? Well, tomorrow you will meet a handsome architect driving a Lexus, but he will be married, an avid gambler, and will hate animals or your mother.
Therefore, whatever you want in life, you need to think about it in all details, so that the Universe clearly understands the task.
One day I came across (or rather, it was recommended by a psychotherapist) a questionnaire about the man of my dreams, such a detailed one, and what surprised me, the second part of it was about myself. That is, when you decide what kind of man you want to find, you still need to realistically assess your chances of getting him and what you are generally ready to do in a relationship. And even if you look at the handsome architect driving a Lexus, you might not be interesting at all...
I filled out this list honestly, spent a couple of hours, and forgot. Just to be on the safe side, my computer with all the information burned down. But how surprised I was when, 2 months later, I met the person I described! I met, fell in love, got married and am still happy about how good it is sometimes to stop and formulate your request correctly. Of all the points, only one point did not coincide, which is already in the process of being implemented.
Since then, I sent this questionnaire to all my friends, and suddenly I thought - I need to post it! I haven’t checked, maybe it’s already publicly available in other places. But let it lie and please the readers of Open The Door. It is worth noting that it is not only for women, it works great for men too.
TAKE THE TIME TO FILL IT HONESTLY SO YOU DON'T WASTE YOUR LIFE WITH THE WRONG PERSON!
ABOUT YOUR PARTNER/SPOUSE
- Item name (gender, partner status, husband)
- Physical Appearance
- Image (clothing, hairstyle, etc.)
- In what social stratum does he “revolve”? What people, from what social sphere, does he communicate with?
- Manners (behavior when communicating with the opposite sex)
- What is important to him in life, in general.
- What does one strive for in life, in general.
- What has already been achieved in life (business sphere - work, financial sphere, self-development, position in society)
- Are there any children from a previous relationship? How much is the maximum allowed? Do you live with him or with your ex-partner? How much time does he devote to them?
- How he has fun, relaxes, what he likes to do (hobbies). We need specifics.
- How does one behave in critical situations? (Related to threats to life, family well-being, financial condition).
- What is NOT acceptable for him? What should you not do or say? How to do it wrong? Moral prohibitions, in other words, or rules of life.
- Lifestyle (way of life). (For example, a bohemian artist or the head of a large company or a writer or a photographer or a fashion model or an actress or a milkmaid - all these people lead a different lifestyle.
Lifestyle is a relationship between spheres: time for yourself, time for business, time for relaxation by yourself and with your loved ones). Their combination is a way of life.
Can be described in one phrase (a bohemian party-goer or a family man or an entrepreneur, and it’s immediately clear who we’re talking about). You can describe it in more detail. Do what is convenient. The main thing is that you CLEARLY understand what you are talking about. - Sphere of professional activity. Specifically or in general terms, but so that it is clear what the person does. Several areas may be acceptable for you. Indicate everything you remember. Or, in a few words, describe the circle that includes certain areas of activity. “Creative work,” for example, would be too general, since creativity is everywhere. But “creative activity related to cinema, theater, literature” is quite specific).
- Political, religious preferences
- Nationality
- Age
- Power in relationships, he puts himself:
Higher
Below
At the level - What kind of relationship does he want?
Romance for a while and with an ending
Romance, with the possibility of moving into life together
Romance with transition into family.
Something else…
(Life together and family differ in the cost of travel. Living together has little in common. Living with a family has a lot in common).
For how long does he want all this? Forever? So far everything will be fine? until you get bored? For a specific period? - What can you be proud of about it? (To you, of course). (Answers from other points may be repeated here.)
- The main character qualities that make him just that.
- The balance between work and time for yourself and your loved ones? (What comes first, what comes second, what comes third?)
- Background state of mind (and facial expression). Most of the time – “bad”, “neutral”, “good”. Matching face :-)
- How do you resolve difficult situations in relationships? What does he do if there are opposing opinions, but there is no time to agree? What to do if you are “not in the mood”?
- Household – is it involved? Which? Does he love it or does it because he asks?
- How many times a week does he want sex? (when the first fuse has already passed). Attitude towards experiments
- Health and bad habits
- Jealousy? What is acceptable? Within what limits?
- Does he express complaints immediately or save them?
- How does he react to criticism that is made in a form that is unacceptable to him?
- Are there expensive hobbies that require your financial help?
- What type of family does he want? Family types: Swedish, guest, temporary, classical, patriarchal, etc.
- Personal and sexual freedom: does he prefer fidelity? Or does he allow himself to someone else besides you? If YES, is he okay with doing it in secret or does he definitely want you to know about it (openness)? What does he expect from you?
ABOUT ME
In order to analyze yourself, your weaknesses and strengths, make a detailed LIST.
- Habits (in everyday life, in food, in rest, in study, etc.). Life habits, in other words. Character qualities (persistent or stubborn, direct or careful on turns, etc.).
- Manners (speech, behavior)
- Image – clothes, etc.
- Lifestyle (is there time for love, for vacations together, etc.)
- My social level is society class
- Hard work – do I like or don’t like to work? Do I have a favorite job or do I work at any job?
- What I own:
Material
Social (connections, dating)
Intangible (knowledge, abilities, skills)
Spirituality is my personal level of development.
Appearance, body (assessment based on the criteria of beauty accepted in our time).
Background facial expression (sometimes “brick” or “I’m good - you’re good”)
Level of happiness (more often I feel: unhappy, happy, or not at all (normal)).
Is the soul prone to fighting or peaceful negotiations in difficult situations? What if we take the situation to the maximum? If you are not in the mood, what happens? - Housekeeping – how do I cook, do I like it or not? And if you’re not in the mood, what then?
- Leadership – who is the head in the relationship? That is, who makes a decision when there are opposing opinions, but there is no time to reach an agreement?
- Sex – do I like sex? How often? Can I make sex taste good? What do I do if my loved one wants it, but I don’t? Do I often have “headaches”? Are you ready to adapt to the habits of others? Experimenting “beyond the border”?
- Will I have healthy and beautiful children? Can I work as a mother (father)? What will my children learn from me - who will make them in life: good people or something more?
- Do I have a tendency to be a victim? Will I blame, “bite” if there is an opportunity?
- Am I inclined to sit back and leave the work to my loved one?
- Am I jealous? (it doesn’t matter whether there is a reason or not).
- Do I express my grievances right away or do I save them up?
- How do I react to criticism if it is made in a form that is unpleasant to me?
- Do I have expensive hobbies that don't generate income? Do I need financial help here?
- Do I have an apartment where I can move, if necessary?
- Do I have a job that, if anything, will feed me?
- How do people feel around me? Who do they feel like? Do I “raise” them, “lower” them, or do nothing?
- My behavior in difficult situations?
This was written by a dating site user...
Who I want to find:
When you love for a long time, people stop noticing it. When you forgive for a long time, people begin to take advantage of it. When you are ready for anything, they simply stop appreciating you. And only when you leave do they begin to understand how dear the person was, whom it is too late to return.
How important it is... sometimes just to be silent and listen... To come when you are not invited, but are really waiting... To take your hand and warm you with your warmth... To look with such a look in which there is confidence that everything will be fine. Be able to understand and forgive, even despite the pain. Help, and not offer help out of politeness. Be able to stay even when pride tells you to leave. Smile to give a little warmth and light. To know that the most difficult things can always be overcome. Be able to be there, understand, forgive, support.
I want a person next to me, in whose presence my heart would beat evenly and steadily, a person next to whom I would feel calm, because I would not be afraid of losing her the next day. And then time would flow more slowly, and we could simply remain silent, knowing that we still have a whole life ahead of us to talk. It is a great success in life to find such a person who is pleasant to watch, interesting to listen to, enthusiastically talk, not burdensome to remain silent, laugh sincerely, remember enthusiastically and look forward to the next meeting...
I'm real.
I make your life more interesting.
I offer my hand and open and close the door when you go out or get into the car.
I open the door and offer my hand as you come down the stairs.
I smoke out the window when the wind blows.
All my discs are in boxes.
I buy chocolate, shoes, handbags and dresses and all sorts of rings and chains.
I meet and accompany you.
I'm brave.
I say “no problem” - and, really, there are no problems.
I always keep my word and keep my promises.
I love looking at you without makeup and shaggy in the morning.
I take you in my arms, if there is a puddle, it seems to me that you are so small and that you need to be hugged, and this is so nice!
Having become a father, I will give my last name to our children.
I treat your relatives and children with respect, love and courtesy
I always wonder where you are
I call and write stupid messages filled with tender feelings.
I pay for coffee and for all my shopping.
I love like no one in the world can love.
I do little stupid things and pranks to make you laugh.
I tolerate your whims...)
If you are a woman, you are chosen. Even when you choose. How do you choose? Without wisdom. First - the face and figure. Then - a rich spiritual world. True, even an enchanting portfolio will not save a profile that “didn’t catch your attention” or left an unpleasant aftertaste. Let's find out how to correctly fill out a form on a dating site for a girl, so that the search does not drag on for years, and its intermediate results do not cause a visit to a psychotherapist.
What to write in the application form
self-presentation
what to write about yourself: examples
who are we looking for
why are we looking for
bait for a guy
more optimism
nowhere without a photo
What not to write in the application form
don't demand
don't bend it
soul wide open
details matter
Let's sum it up
Selection of a dating site
What to write in the application form
Take your time. Writing a beautiful and concise self-presentation about yourself is more difficult than it seems. Let's agree right away, discussing advantageous positions, we will keep in mind the prospect of serious relations. If you are interested in sex, one nude photo and two words will essentially be enough. Go!
Self-presentation
And although Oscar Wilde said that “a woman is created to love her, and not to understand her,” form a clear and intelligible idea of yourself. First, you will be “understood” (identified). Then - “they will love you.” It doesn’t matter what portal the profile is on - a dating site, Facebook or VK. Positioning is the foundation of any virtual self. Keep in mind, guys are still attracted to femininity, softness and mystery. And “bitches”, “queens” and “glamorous” are still repulsive.
It is worth writing about yourself beautifully, succinctly and thoroughly in the “information about yourself” column or any other column where freedom of speech is provided. Here charisma has the opportunity to speak loudly. But watch your image. Having declared yourself “faithful and devoted,” do not pose for photos in a negligee.
- Don't make a man think about who you really are. Conclusions will always not be in your favor. Draw a specific and understandable image.
- Even if you claim premium quality, you don’t need to talk about it out loud. The correct strategy is not to ask for a price, but to present the “product.”
And don’t forget, a name makes a person. To be honest (Anya) or to attract attention (Game of Life) - decide for yourself. The main thing is without vulgarities (Cat), insinuations (Take-Me-I-I-Yours) and abbreviations (qwerty123).
What to write about yourself: examples
A good example of what you can write about yourself on Instagram, VKontakte, on a dating site:
“At the buffet table there is an elegant lady. In life, she is a mischievous girl. I turn everyday life into holidays. You want to meet? If you love life and are ready for a vibrant but serious relationship, we will understand each other perfectly. Write!”
The next girl will probably be lucky too:
“In any difficult life situation, I remain an optimist. I believe in people and that I will meet a worthy person here who needs love and support. To the man I love, I will give all my care and tenderness. Let's get acquainted!".
“Do you also think that without love, even the brightest life is missing something? Are you looking for a devoted companion and hostess who knows how to create comfort? You can be congratulated! You found me. Tell us about yourself - it is very important to me that you are interested. I’m waiting for your message!” By attaching a photo of a smiling girl to such a profile, you will get married in the near future. By the way, about marriage.
Who are we looking for?
Husband? Lover? Sponsor? Order, but without “demand”. Everyone wants perfect. Identify key traits that will resonate with everyone: reliable, smart, strong. “Wealthy”, “financially secure” will scare off even a “sponsor”. One in 100 wealthy men would agree to be a cash cow. 99 will give a villa in Nice to someone who is looking for “smart”, “strong” and “independent”.
Why are we looking?
Don't get carried away with literary creativity. It is important not just to describe yourself in an interesting way, but to get a return on the questionnaire. A beautiful romance, marriage, sex - your right to pursue any goal. It is your responsibility to reach the right audience. Be careful when filling out the “Purposes of dating” column. Marriage and sex 1-2 times in one profile are inappropriate. Study our rating of dating sites - and find a dating portal that best suits your needs. Our detailed description of the site and reviews from real users will help you navigate your choice.
Bait for the guy
Wise girls understand that interests are the most advantageous place in a profile. Take your time to write in the section what interests you. The goal is to anchor. Instead of shopping and ballet, indicate: travel, hiking, cooking, football. And only then - crocheting: “I can talk about hockey, fishing and your other hobbies. I prefer to share the interests of my man than to spend time shopping.” Or: “I love men who love home cooking, scrambled eggs and pancakes for breakfast and baked meat for dinner. And what do you like? I'm sure I can cook this!” Appetizing?
More optimism
We are not talking about what is usually written about in a profile: “I have a great sense of humor.” The questionnaire should be permeated with humor. If you can't use humor, take it with optimism. It is difficult to fill out the form with light and clear text, but try hard. You are His outlet, not His problem.
Without a photo, nowhere
No matter what you write, men love with their eyes. I recommend ordering studio photography instead of another pair of shoes. The investment will pay off. Do you want it yourself? Forget about duck lips, selfies and guess-me photos. The photographs are clear, of good quality, at least ten. Smile, play with your eyes, present yourself from different angles. Don't delve into the archives. Only recent photos. As for erotica, light is appropriate. Instincts must be used, but skillfully. Not “nude”, but “but”, “maybe”. Like Marilyn Monroe at Kennedy's birthday.
What not to write in the application form
Self-presentation can turn off potential life partners for a variety of reasons. An example of a 100% failed positioning is narcissism (“Am I in the world?”). Of course you do, no doubt, but there are millions of profiles on the dating site. The competition is wild. Keep your royal habits to yourself: “I am a woman, and all roads in the world lead to me, and not to some Rome. I am a woman, I am chosen by God...” There are a million roads on a dating site, and they try to avoid the “chosen ones.” Don't make other common mistakes - for example, don't write about anything.
About nothing
Sample questionnaire “about nothing”: “I am sincere, sociable, with a sense of humor. I like to chat with friends and go to the movies. I really like to travel and learn new things.” The characterization of this girl is “about nothing.” Only youth and outstanding external data will save her from fiasco.
Don't demand
Some girls demonstrate an inextinguishable passion to demand. How interesting it is to write about yourself is the last thing they care about. Rule: do not make more than two demands. But a real woman does not demand, but receives. Because he knows how to present himself. Unlike the girl who wrote the following: “Give me the best, dear. Not just in pants, but also jewelry. Carry me in your arms, and I’ll climb onto your neck myself.” It is unlikely that anyone will give her such an opportunity. And the next girl will be offered plenty of opportunities: “I don’t have a long list of requirements for a man. I'm not looking for an ideal. I just want to meet a person with whom we will have common interests.”
Don't overdo it
What can you write about yourself if you are a bright, successful and ambitious girl? Don't try to be even more perfect. Get down to the ground so as not to scare everyone away. Before you write “I am a beautiful diamond that requires an expensive setting,” think about what you really want - a setting or a life partner. Do you think a successful girl should “keep the bar” and “set the level”? Successful men, by the way, do not like competitors. As well as those who, in an attempt to present themselves in an original way, go over and cause a strong association with the heroes of Lewis Carroll. And it’s good if it’s Alice and not the Hatter.
Soul wide open
Don't rush to lay out everything at once, including the details of the figure. You can interest a guy with a nude photograph, but the stronger sex does not consider girls with such a portfolio as life partners. Pedigree, rich inner world, difficult financial situation, sexual fantasies, “I love”, “I don’t love”... Keep the intrigue. Be a mystery. Let him find out later. However, tell me something now.
Details matter
Don't hide your height and weight. What's the point? Subtly show off your figure in your portfolio. And frankly admit the weaknesses that are of fundamental importance. Casinos, cats, tobacco, tattoos - everything you can’t live without and don’t intend to retire.
Let's sum it up
- When wondering what to write about yourself on a dating site, start from the goal. “I want to get married” and “I want sex” are different questionnaires.
- Be original. Competition is high. Set yourself apart. Write about yourself briefly, succinctly and beautifully. You must be remembered.
- Find a balance between your real and virtual self. Keep it simple - be honest, and when embellishing, be consistent.
Choose a dating site. But before you create a profile on the site, study its features. Our reviews will help you make your choice, and our advice will protect you from common mistakes. The rest is in your hands. Good luck!
And finally, here are some successful and unsuccessful examples of questionnaires.
This is what most forms look like:
- I am affectionate, romantic, caring, faithful, sincere and very sociable. An excellent hostess with a wonderful sense of humor. I really like listening to music, reading, traveling and chatting with friends. I dream of meeting an honest, decent, financially secure man in order to create a strong family that will be based on love and mutual understanding. (A lot of epithets and a blurry image)
- I have a lot of interests in life. In my free time I like to meet with friends; we have a great time in restaurants and cafes. I go to the theater quite often, I like to watch ballet. On weekends I go to museums, cinema, beautiful parks. I love to travel. I have already visited many countries, but there are still so many places where I would like to go. My favorite sport is swimming. (Restaurants, cafes and ballet certainly won’t interest you, but for a love of travel it’s a plus)
And such questionnaires are quite rare:
- Romantic, pretty and friendly girl. A little sentimental. I don't like it when people lie to me. I love reading books and falling asleep to the sound of rain. I want to meet a guy for whom the main value in life is family. (Brief but succinct description)
- I am a journalist, a model and just a good person. Only for now I don’t have the one person I want to devote my life to! I love ordering Americano coffee in Arabica, the first greens in spring, summer rain, and in winter - how the newly fallen snow creaks under my feet. I love it when life is in full swing around me, since I myself am very active and sociable. I don’t like it when people try to manipulate me, I don’t like it when I’m scared or cold... I want to find a serious young man with a strong character, who is confident in himself, knows how to appreciate, respect and love a woman. The one who can turn the most ordinary day into a holiday. Having met my special man, I would like to create such a relationship that we always understand each other without words. (Frank and beautiful, but a little long)
- I would prefer to remain a mystery than to write banalities or embellished reality in order to get married quickly :-) I want to meet a young man so that in the future I can create a family with him, which will be a small kingdom, where family and friends are very welcome, but most of all they value time spent alone with each other. (Unusual and humorous)
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