Love is a great feeling, one might even say - eternal: if love is real, then it will live forever in our souls and hearts (of course, this applies only to those people who believe in God and the afterlife after death, atheists do not believe in such pathos :)
However, love is also a great way to manipulate another person.
How many women have driven and are leading their supposedly beloved men by the nose, trying to talk about their supposed love for them and at the same time sucking out the last physical, mental, moral and material juices from them, giving nothing in return?
Yes, there are many such young ladies, and each person knows at least a few such examples from his life - it could be just a colleague or even a best friend!
However, men who manipulate a defenseless woman's heart thanks to three simple words "I love you" are no less, if not more, than such women.
Why do they do it? There are many reasons for deceiving girls by guys, and in each case a male representative has his own motives. Let's look at just some of the most common cases in life.
The man confesses his love and says to the woman "I love you, you are the best" with the aim:
1. To use a woman for a long time, free of charge and without the slightest twinge of conscience - I love her type, like "... lyu".
I experienced this version of male love in voluptuous ecstasy for 6 years of my life and what I want to say - I was a complete fool, that I was led by the words of an elderly, suede and bald, but very cunning, for - an experienced, macho womanizer, about love, which , as I understand it, there was no trace.
So what made this 45-year-old experienced manipulator hang a 19-year-old girl on her ears?
Desire to take advantage of youth and inexperience. He did it well, because before this "macho picchu" I had no other men or guys, because I behaved like a good girl, decent. So I ran into it.
When you are 45 and you are like a businessman, and next to you a young and beautiful girl runs errands in high heels - a future lawyer and economist, by the way, with good spoken and written English, it greatly raises your social and business status in the eyes of both domestic and foreign partners.
Lyrical digression: Recently I was hanging out on freelance, recollecting my youth, and came across an ad, they say, photographers are required for staged shootings of girls-models for escort services.
Well, I wondered if I was going to this site. And what do you think? The services that I provided for 6 years almost free of charge (for food and sometimes, but very rarely - for clothes), girls earn from 1 to 10,000 US dollars per visit!
So think now, who benefits from love with a difference in age! And who benefits from powdering your head with beautiful, gentle and gentle words about your own feelings, which in real life do not exist, did not exist and will not exist, but thanks to the illusion of which you can twist and manipulate a rope from a bad and young woman.
Free sex. And - cool. Moreover - several times a day, but once a day or two - this is 100%. Hot, young, unrestrained.
Girls, this cattle ... muschschina, I drank all the juices from me over the years of my life together - after him my sexual fuse almost disappeared, because of him and his vybryk (he constantly communicated with his former lovers, and his wife was available, and I did not disdain to flirt with new ladies of any age - I stored women under my feet in reserve, in case of a sex deficit, as I now understand) I turned gray early.
Complete household support for free - I cleaned the house and went shopping, tore off my hands with bags of food, and cooked, and washed, and cleaned, and ironed, and worried about his affairs at work ...
Well, you get the idea ...
2. My second case in life, connected with male manipulation of love and deception, is somewhat different.
Here the guy turned out to be not as smart and intellectually savvy in relations with the female sex as the previous specimen, although he had already turned 25.
He, it turns out, has been fooling me for 8 years, they say, he is head over heels in love - just whistle and I'm all yours. Well, at some point I matured, whistled, and all that, and now I need to decide - who am I with? With him or not, what's next?
This is how I ask him - do you love me? And in response I hear - no.
In short, I am very grateful to this friend for his honesty in the second part of the Marlezon ballet (because later, thank God, I met a REAL man), but what do I want to say?
Another would, more mature and more experienced, could easily tell me, lie, they say I love you, dear, my strength is gone. And I would again, headlong into the pool, for 5 years ...
Girls, why don't we value ourselves so much? Why is male love more important for us than our own happiness?
And why do I say that, thank God, it has passed? Yes, because as it turned out in the process and even later, this guy was a terrible slob (even worse than me a million times), and even more greedy than the one, my previous one, and even his character - not during communication, but in real life everyday life - generally g ... but, in another way, you can not say.
GIRLS! DO NOT FALL IN LOVE AND DO NOT LOSE YOUR HEAD FROM THOSE MEN WHO CARE BEAUTIFULLY! FACT TIME THEY CARE YOU SO BEAUTIFULLY, IT MEANS THEM BEFORE YOU HAVE GREAT EXPERIENCE IN THIS BUSINESS!
If a man says at the very beginning of his acquaintance that you are so beautiful, and so smart, and so interesting, and in general everything is so cool, and so he pours right and left with beautiful tender, pleasant and affectionate words about all your conceivable and inconceivable merits - think about whether this is so, and even if this is so, just do not rush into all this verbal babble, bouquets of flowers, restaurants and other romantic crap - then a barn castle from love addiction mixed with jealousy, dry rations and all life will fall on your fragile shoulders, and he will "help you around the house" - when you sweep or mop the floor, he will raise his legs.
Girls, believe more those guys who do not know how to look after beautifully, do not speak or say little beautiful words and compliments, do not confess their love, great and bright feelings on dates 1-3, do not pull you straight into bed, but want to first meet how with a person who they blush and sweat, are embarrassed during a conversation - they are real and good, most likely honest and responsible guys - they are real men, and not these old horses who will get you with their fairy tales later.
I wish you happiness and honest, sincere, loving men who will never deceive or betray!
They do this for a variety of reasons. Some men want to have several girls at once in order to meet with them in turn, others manipulate in order to get benefits, and still others unconsciously resort to various tricks so that the girl could not think that he is a real bastard. At the same time, the girls are trying in every possible way to please such men and even study ..
1. Depicts the victim
In order not to burden themselves with a serious relationship, some guys are ready to come up with any excuse so long as the girl does not ask to designate their meetings as a "couple". The bad guy will definitely come up with the stupidest and most banal reason, like "the previous girl dumped me and my mental wounds have not healed yet, so let's just be together." The role of the victim will allow him to delay the moment from questions about the status of the relationship, which is so important to a girl.
2. Innocence itself
The bad guy is always confident that he is right. Moreover, even if he kisses another, he will turn the situation around in such a way that it is the girl who is to blame for this. With the innocent eyes of a deer, such a character will come up with a hundred reasons why he was caught on the other. And what's the matter at all, if your official relationship is not such, because "his wounds from his ex have not yet healed," and you gave the go-ahead for uncertainty. He's just looking for himself.
3. Constantly in touch
The bad guy knows how to keep all of his women on their toes. He will periodically call, write SMS, like photos on social networks. In general, to remind yourself so that you think that there is something between you. In fact, the bad guy keeps you in good shape, but also a dozen other young ladies he meets.
4. Absolute lie
The bad guy will never admit his mistakes or mistakes. He will say that he is not married, although in fact his beloved wife with children may be waiting for him at home, he will assure that he does not know the girl who liked his ava. He will come up with any lie just to get out of the water and make you to blame. And the most interesting thing is that he will not be ashamed of his lies, because he is a bad boy and this is his lifestyle.
5. He bathes you in attention
Even if for a long time he suddenly disappears and then comes back, then you will not be able to express to him everything that you think about him. He's incredibly charming! The bad guy will buy a beautiful bouquet and say, "Baby, I had work to do! How I missed you!" And that's it! You will no longer be able to resist. All kinds of compliments, romance and more will be used.
6. Intimacy
Due to the fact that the bad guy is a great manipulator, he knows exactly how to persuade you to intimacy. At the same time, in the morning after a night with such a cutie and charm, a girl usually does not know whether she has a new boyfriend or whether she is being used banally.
7. He dodges accurate answers
As journalist JoInfo Karina Kotovskaya learned, such a character as a bad guy will never say that he is looking for the One, but he will not claim that he is satisfied with his bachelor life. He is "in between here", which attracts women. Such a man does not say that he likes you, but he does not deny it either. In some amazing way, the bad guy makes the girl think she has a chance to win his obstinate heart. By the way, the bad guy never has a marital status on his pages on social networks and he usually doesn't post pictures with other girls.
8. It's hard to understand
He will fill your thoughts! This is because the bad guy will do his best to make sure that every action and word he does will leave three dots behind. He then invites you somewhere, then abruptly cancels the meeting. Uncertainty makes you think about him and grab any opportunity he presents to be with him.
9. Pretends to be a jealous person
So that the girl still does not get tired of such mysteriousness, occasionally the bad guy can turn on the jealous mode. At the same time, he may absolutely not care who there claims to be your heart. Moreover, yesterday he could kiss another in the bar, but today he arranged a debriefing for you because the guy on the street "somehow looks at you strangely." Great manipulator. Applause!
Now you know how to recognize the manipulation methods often used by bad vapes! But if you are lucky and there is a real man next to you who proposed to you and in 2017 you are going to get married, then look in the year of the Fire Rooster.
How often do girls cheat on their boyfriends?
1. Age
Unfortunately, women over 30 feel the need to lie to everyone around them about their age. This kind of lie can rather be called deceit, since it is not as scary as the others on this list, and let's be honest, men do it too.
However, it is not uncommon for a guy to date a girl and have no idea that she is 32 and not 26. But is it bad that you got a girl who looks great for her age.
2. I'm not angry!
You yourself are to blame, blurted out what she did not like or did not take her side in the dispute. One way or another, you deserve this gentle, passive-aggressive smile and the words "No, what are you, I'm not angry!"
And then she leaves the room and the door behind her almost flies off its hinges. In such a situation, it is better not to catch her eye, and sooner or later she will think about the likelihood that she is angry from scratch.
3. How many sexual partners did she have?
Girls don't want to sound promiscuous, but the truth is, they love sex too. So chances are good that she already had several partners before you.
Nothing wrong with that. But most guys still live in those primeval times where girls are supposed to be virgins before marriage and have sex just for reproduction.
So yes, girls are lying about this number, because any answer greater than 1-2 in the guy's eyes will make her almost a night butterfly.
4. I'll be ready in 5 minutes!
Five minutes turn into 10, and then into 20 and even 30, and then the girl falls out of reality, because what's the difference, let the whole world wait.
She does not torment you with waiting on purpose, she just peeled off her false eyelashes, then the varnish on one nail peeled off, and before continuing with makeup, you have to wait until the new layer dries, and the dress she planned to wear today does not look the same as yesterday ... So, you have to rethink the whole outfit.
5. We're just friends!
The fact that a girl has a close male friend annoys all guys in the world. There is always a suspicion that there is something between them. And even if you are 100% confident in your girlfriend, you cannot vouch for her friend.
It often happens that there really was something between them before you, and, as you know, it is not so easy to get rid of old habits. And then, like the most innocent gestures, like constant hugs and kisses on the cheek, really start to strain.
6. I am curvy!
This item is more suitable for online dating. Usually, girls indicate exactly this type of figure in the profile when they are clearly overweight.
Unfortunately, curvy and overweight are completely different things, but girls in this case prefer to ignore the difference.
You should not start a relationship with a lie, if the relationship will exist at all after the truth is revealed. On the other hand, very few people want to seem like a superficial jerk, blowing up this scandal, so the trick will most likely work.
7. Give me nothing for Valentine's Day / for our anniversary!
What do they really mean? Please give me something. How should a guy be in this situation? Yes, I know that Valentine's Day, invented by trading companies, is a holiday aimed at getting you to buy a piece of pink cardboard, chocolates and balloons.
But it has long been ingrained in our heads and cannot be ignored. It's the same with the anniversary. Just a little attention is needed. Show that you remember this date. It is enough to give a bouquet of flowers or a more expensive item, but it all depends on your wallet.
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The female sex loves to be cunning and embellish. Often, young ladies present themselves as virgins, although they are not. They want to look innocently pure in order to conquer the knight of their whole life. In the recent past, great attention was paid to this issue and the girls began to carry out procedures that can restore innocence.
How do girls cheat about virginity?
Previously, we used the following methods:
The girl cheated that she is a virgin
In the event that the girl kept convincing her of her innocence, but in fact she was deceiving, then the relationship will come to naught. After all, no man will tolerate such an attitude towards himself, especially if the question of innocence is very important to him. Guys who have been in search for a long time have tried a lot, they are looking for a virgin as a spouse, since they were convinced from their own experience that connections with experienced people will not lead to good, they have too many grievances against the opposite sex and cockroaches in their heads. Even virgins choose innocent girls for themselves in order not to embarrass themselves during an intimate debut. This is the greatest fear of every man - not to satisfy his woman! This also includes shy men who are shy and constantly shy. And if the bride had no experience, then she has no one to compare with. He will be unique and magnificent. 
Ways to imitate virginity:
What to do if a girl cheated on virginity
Many men ask the following question: "what to do if a girl cheated about her virginity?" in fact, if you are an inexperienced man, then of course you can be deceived. But an experienced man manages to immediately reveal whether the girl is innocent. If you managed to figure out your partner, then what to do is up to you. In fact, it's okay that it's not the first time, but, on the other hand, the girl deceived you, and not every person will tolerate this. How, then, to build relationships further?
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