Enchantress Maeve
Enchantress Maeve
Suicide is condemned in many world religions. For example, according to the law of Orthodoxy, such people are not buried and are buried separately, from the cemetery area. According to Eastern religions, such an action is considered a neglect of valuable experience in a separate part of rebirth. If in some family there was a similar case, then the karma of the entire subsequent generation is spoiled. Everyone will have to pay for this act. The next incarnation will be even harder, and you will have to drag this strap to the end. The spirit of such a person can pass into a family member, a person who committed suicide, so that he could feel all the pain caused to his loved ones. In some countries, there is an opinion that the souls of these people cannot leave our world. Their spirit wanders for several centuries tied to a certain karmic place and looks like ghosts that frighten us. Thus, they are punished until they realize what happened and work off their mistakes. In any case, you will not envy such a fate .. I was looking for all this information out of curiosity, to fill in the gaps in this area, what I found, I wrote above. Perhaps you are familiar with this topic and can supplement my information, I will be grateful.
Sunday, 19 Feb. 2012
Nobody leaves unnoticed. Each suicide leaves behind a bloody scar on the Earth, drags both loved ones and people whom he did not even know to hell.
Many years ago, when I worked as a journalist, the employees of the letters department of our editorial office collected phrases from readers' letters that seemed funny to them in separate notebooks. I remember some of these phrases. For example, such: "I would like to leave at least a small scar on Earth."
The man meant that he would like to leave a mark on Earth after himself. And of course, a good follow. So that his life was not in vain, so that those who remained alive would remember him with kindness.
But there are also people who leave such a trace on Earth that can be called a scar. These people do not think about what they will leave behind. They generally think little of other people and their inseparable connection with them. Their view of life is narrowed down to the size of their own problems, which makes their problems seem endless, covering the entire horizon from edge to edge and obscuring the problems of other people.
Once, a young woman, a doctor, a toxicologist-resuscitator, wrote to the Pobedish.ru administrators by e-mail. Let's call her Elena. The main job of doctors in this profession is to save suicides who have chosen poisoning. The story just happened to this woman.
Elena came to the call. The girl got poisoned. According to her mother, she did this because she was not invited to the prom. (What exactly the ball is, remains unclear to us.)
In the vast majority of cases, poisoners can be saved. Lena, right at home, began to perform all the procedures required in such situations, starting with gastric lavage. I think it is superfluous to describe the experiences of the mother, who was present at the same time.
But this time the patient could not be saved. After some time, the doctor had to admit defeat: the girl was dead. Upon learning of this, her mother, in front of the doctor, jumped out the window and also died.
After experiencing such a double shock, Elena returned to her work and wrote to us from there. Apparently she blamed herself for what happened. The administrator, who entered into correspondence with her, tried to calm her down, to convince her that she had done everything she could. It was not useful for Lena to worry also because she was pregnant.
On the same day, some time later, a colleague of Elena wrote to us from the same address, asking what happened. Not wanting to spoil Lena's reputation, we described the situation itself, without going into details of how much she is going through. They asked me to call her to find out how she was doing. Soon this doctor told us that Lena was at home, sleeping. Then, fearing the worst, we told this doctor about Elena's experiences and asked him to make sure that she was really sleeping.
It turned out that Lena did not sleep. She got poisoned. Moreover, being a toxicologist, she chose such drugs, in such a dose, that had serious chances to kill her. They started resuscitating Elena in the ambulance. Fortunately, when she woke up, she was able to name the remedy she took. Lena's condition was critical. Fortunately, the fight for her life was successful. But the child died.
Do you know what it's like to lose a baby in the womb? Can you imagine how many years after this tragedy the unfortunate mother suffers, blames herself for doing something wrong, even if in fact she did everything that was needed? The death of a child causes both parents an unhealed wound.
We hope that Elena and her husband will not lose heart, they will turn to God, and He will heal their wounds. (In my opinion, Elena in this situation needs to repent of pride, which she mistakenly takes for responsibility. Repentance will heal her from feelings of immeasurable guilt.)
All participants in this story are victims. But each of us is responsible for what we do. And yet this tragedy was launched by the first of the victims. Moreover, the one whose problems were the most insignificant of the problems of all participants in history. She is the one who pays the most for three deaths, the suffering of two families and the terrible scar that will remain in the lives of many generations of these families.
Did you know that suicide is spreading like an epidemic? On TV they report that some famous person committed suicide. Or unknown, but in an interesting way. And several hundred people who were on the verge, under the influence of this information, attempt suicide. Several dozen of them die, hundreds lose their health. A schoolboy learns that someone has committed suicide in the next class - and tries to do the same. Relatives, descendants of a suicide are especially susceptible to such an “example” ...
In short, no one goes unnoticed. Each suicide leaves behind a bloody scar on the Earth, drags both loved ones and people whom he did not even know to hell.
Accept the simple truth - we are not grains of sand in the desert. We are a single, living organism. All of us humans are closely related. The victory of each of us is a common victory. The defeat of one is the defeat of all.
It's like in a war, when everyone is fighting, and one suddenly decides to desert. By his betrayal, he weakens the continuity of the front, he sows the seeds of panic, he causes the death of those who hoped for him and, perhaps, even loved ...
Wait, stop, let's discuss one more related problem related to this step. This problem can be formulated with one question: How beautiful is your act towards those who love you?
Let's think together about how many people will be associated with this step, how many troubles, grief, disappointments and tears your suicide will bring to those who wished you well. Just do not say that such people did not exist.
We are all united by certain milestones in life. All of us were once in the stomach of the mother who carried us, who did not feel well. She was observed by doctors who wanted to help her, and us, to be born safely. And then we were born into this world. We were born completely defenseless and little people who really needed love and protection. From the first minute, many people began to give us attention, love and care. Without their help, we would not have been able to live up to this moment, get an education, health, feel many good moments in our lives. The first sunset, a children's party, the first lesson and graduation at school, the joy of the New Year and the first snow, a birthday present, the joy of friends.
These are our parents, grandfathers, grandmothers, brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles. Of course, these are other relatives, doctors, educators, teachers, acquaintances, neighbors, just a kind passer-by.
Let's remember that there were people who rejoiced at our first steps, who treated us, who fed us, who educated us, rejoiced at our successes and were upset because of our failures. Remember these people. How many were there? How many people were there who gave you great and very small joys, kindness, support, sympathy? How many people during your life simply wished you well, how many people tried to help you, how many people felt sorry for you when you were ill? Remembered? Surprised? There were hundreds of them! How many books and textbooks have been written for you! How many people died for you to live now! Now the number of people who lived for you is already in the thousands...
All these people, even without knowing you, lived for you, thought for you, gave you the warmth of their souls! To make it a little easier for you, to make your life better and more comfortable. In order for you to know more and receive more joy, so that you improve here, in this earthly life, your soul. By doing good to a person, we give from ourselves for him a piece of our soul, something good that he needs ...
And here it is not. He killed himself, and took away part of our soul. Forever!
How did you repay these living, and maybe already inanimate people? What will people experience when they are told about your suicide? Understandable, depending on who.
People who loved you, respected, appreciated, will survive the strongest shock. These will be people close to you - relatives, friends, good acquaintances, colleagues, study mates. It is these people who will immediately become the “weak link” after your suicide. These people will suffer the most, tormented by the endless questions “Why?”, “What is my fault?”, “Why is he like that?” These questions will tear consciousness, coming again and again, these questions will not let them sleep, eat, and live too. Every time, remembering the good things that were connected with you, people will look for answers to these damned questions and not find them.
Such grief associated with suicide does not heal with time (and we, the experts, know about it), this grief can only weaken when it is driven deeper inside. But then, when traumatic conditions and crises are created again, this grief will come out again, and will continue to choke and burn those people to whom you were dear and close. And so it will last for years until their death.
What will a loved one feel when he is called for identification? How will he see the dead body, mutilated by death, which he knew for a long time and which was as precious as your soul? Can you imagine the state of this person? This trauma will also remain for life.
People close and dear to you will try to find solace in the Church, but they will not find it. The priest, looking at them with great sympathy and with pain in his eyes, will tell them that if a person himself has rejected God and the Church, then nothing can be done. You can't even commemorate in the Church. One cannot go against the free choice of the one who commits suicide. The priest will say that, to the greatest regret, their close and dear person died not only for them, but also for God. He will also say that the Church categorically forbids the commemoration of suicides, and does not pray for them. They condemned themselves to hell and refused pardon.
Can you imagine with what eyes, with what multiplied grief, what inner, frenzied, burning pain people will leave the temple?
Think about how these people will squeeze out of themselves, blushing, stuttering and carefully choosing words to answer acquaintances, colleagues, their friends and relatives to a simple question: “What did he die of?”
How difficult it will be for them to tell the truth, how unbearably painful it will be to pronounce the terrible, ominous word “suicide” that crosses out love. Think about how they will be told about the suicide of a close and beloved person (son, daughter, friend, husband, wife, father, mother, etc.)!
But the troubles of your loved ones will not end there. Most people are weak and find it difficult to deal with grief. Therefore, after expressing sympathy, experiencing the shock of this news, people begin to move away and distance themselves. They cannot console (in this case, unlike other deaths, no one can console), they themselves do not want to receive permanent psychological trauma. So they try to forget about it. But it is impossible to forget about it when you constantly encounter a person who suffers from this. That is why acquaintances and relatives of people close to you will call less and less often, be interested in their affairs, more often shy away from them, cancel meetings. They will lose many people whom they considered to be friends and acquaintances. Many of their relatives will begin to live their lives, forgetting about them. Quite often, those people who were close, and then turned away because of this, begin to gossip on this topic, gloat, blame the suicide itself or people close to him for what happened (“It’s your own fault!”).
And this is where the loneliness begins. And misunderstanding. And constant questions to yourself: “Why? For what?" And a feeling of guilt that cannot be removed from oneself. And the loss of friends, and the loss of the meaning of life, and the lack of interest in what is happening. And lack of consolation. And there is no way out. One continuous pain ... This is the punishment that the suicide punished after his death. But that doesn't make it any easier. And even harder.
This condition almost always leads to illnesses over several years (the so-called psychosomatic diseases - ulcers, hypertension, coronary heart disease, diabetes, etc.) and very often to mental disorders (schizophrenia, psychosis, asthenia, and many others). During my work at the oncology center, I saw an incredibly large number of people who developed cancer after the suicides of loved ones.
Often, after the suicide of a loved one, very strange things happen: people dear and close to the suicide suddenly die unexpectedly in disasters or are killed. As if fate begins to pursue close suicides: disasters, illnesses, fires, severe discord in the family, inexplicable loss of property and health, loss of work, failures, defeats. This is known to the cultures of many peoples, which is reflected in social prohibitions on suicide.
But even if none of this happens, then all your parents, friends, acquaintances, relatives who were not indifferent to you, will come to the gates of old age.
And in old age, as you know, all the diseases that have been acquired throughout life are exacerbated. The same thing happens with all psychological trauma. Old age or a serious fatal illness is the time of summing up, the autumn of life, when all questions, all experiences come to life. Time after time, a person tries to have time to find answers to questions that tormented him during his lifetime, to resolve contradictions in his soul, to find harmony in his heart. But she is gone ... There is no longer a close and dear person who lost his life like that, from him there will never be much needed help now, nothing can be fixed, it is impossible to understand. Hopes did not come true. The meeting will not take place even after death. Lost forever...
Body hurts. No less hurts and the soul. Coming on the road soon...
Now a lot of lonely old people are ending their lives in boarding schools (and in the future, apparently, the situation with this will only get worse). They have no children, relatives, friends and acquaintances who would take care of them. They lead miserable, difficult lives. Often in inhuman conditions. They are suffering.
So, before you take a fatal step, think: Are you dooming to such old age or illness those who have done a lot for you and loved you. Perhaps now, besides you, many can support them. But everything can change. And a lot will change. Those who surround them now may die, move, quarrel and forget them. Those who are with them now may have new things to do, they themselves may become ill and will not be able to care for others. And those who loved you will be left alone ... Lonely dying, suffering because dreams are broken, and it is impossible to fix anything, Understatement. Misunderstanding. The edge of life... It's very hard and scary...
Until now, I have written only about those to whom you are dear, and who did you good. And what about the enemies? Or recently still a close person who offended? The one to whom, in some cases, suicide itself is addressed?
Everything is very simple with them. A person, even if he is guilty, always tries to justify himself.
And with this, if desired, there are no problems. Moreover, in order to justify themselves, people begin to condemn and blame the victim. This phenomenon was noticed by the great connoisseur of souls Leo Tolstoy, in addition, we all know that the best defense is an attack. People who offended or treated unfairly begin to calm themselves, finding convincing arguments in their favor. And in general, it is impossible to punish enemies with this, it is almost impossible to cause a feeling of guilt in them. If they were able to offend like that, it means that they were selfish, and a person in love with himself cannot feel pain for another. Those whom we want to hurt will hardly feel this, but will continue their normal life from time to time, perhaps remembering this, condemning you, and sometimes even boasting that because of them (so significant!) Someone ( wimp) committed suicide. This can greatly raise their self-esteem in front of others.
This pain pierces the hearts of only those closest to us, those who love us, and often completely innocent people.
I will give a few illustrations to what has been said. I have witnessed all these cases.
Story 1
Boarding school for the elderly. A 77-year-old woman, a bedridden, seriously ill person who suffers from intractable pain. The eldest daughter in the family. The parents are dead. She had 2 brothers and one sister. The sister died in infancy. Brother, a soldier, died while performing military duty in Afghanistan. The younger, beloved brother, who was 18 years younger than her, committed suicide during military service due to the fact that his girlfriend left him.
This woman also had an alcoholic daughter, who sent her to a boarding school.
When he talks about his brother (30 years after the suicide), his eyes are full of tears, he sobs and cries. He says that the worst thing is that he will not see him in the next world, he talks about him, sobbing sobbing. She cruelly blames herself for not being able to prevent this suicide (although she had no opportunity to do so). It was a very difficult conversation with a man who has been mourning his suicidal brother for 30 years.
And she did not say anything about the fact that if he had not committed this act, then maybe she would not have ended up in such a position in the boarding school. But I understood it. And I thought. Think also you...
History 2.
Sixteen years ago, this Russian woman came from Tajikistan with her three-year-old daughter. There was a war going on, the Russians were in danger, and she was forced to leave.
Her husband, a Tajik, refused to go with her. I had to settle alone in the far suburbs. She worked a lot, hard, took on any job in order to save up for housing and clothes - to feed her daughter. She worked two jobs. There was no free time. Personal life, of course, too. The whole point of her life came down to ensuring that she and her daughter had a roof over their heads and food. It's been 14 years...
The daughter did well in school and went to college. The woman managed to save up for her housing and stop hanging around in rented apartments. She bought a small but brick house not far from the district center. She had a good relationship with her daughter.
After a while, she began to notice oddities in her daughter's behavior. She began to dress strangely, put on some unusual make-up, pierced her nose in several places and inserted shiny clips there.
Her behavior has also changed. Increasingly, she stayed with her friends, went to Moscow for concerts of groups that the woman had not heard of before. When she saw her daughter's friends, she was also surprised at their clothes. When she asked her daughter what kind of strange clothes they were, she answered her with three letters: “Emo.” Anyway, then the mother could not understand this. Then the daughter often began to philosophize about the lack of meaning in life, about the injustice of the world, about the cruelty of people. The mother could not object, because she herself did not know the meaning. But she knew for sure that she lived for her daughter. Further - worse. The daughter often began to blaspheme in conversation, and her mother's remarks on this subject became even more irritated. The mother thought that okay, the child will go crazy! This is where he got pissed...
As the investigator told her, her daughter first belonged to the youth subculture "Emo" ("Degenerates!" - the investigator gave a description), and then, in search of the meaning of life, she was drawn to Satanists (more precisely, to juvenile fools who consider themselves to be them). It was not possible to find out exactly what happened next, but it is known that her daughter, in a state of drug intoxication, climbed onto the roof herself and jumped down, she was blown to the wall of the building by the wind, and, hitting the balconies and protruding canopies on the building, she fell down.
There were several of her friends at the funeral (as it were), everyone promised support for her mother, saying that they would never forget her and would always help.
The mother could neither sleep nor eat. It was hard for her to believe what had happened. And day and night she was tormented by the questions “Why am I so exhausted? Who needs it now?”, “Why did she do it?”, “What is my fault?”
Five days after the funeral, she had a heart attack and was taken to the hospital.
Exactly on the ninth day after the death of her daughter, the house caught fire. The woman herself was not at home. The electricity in the house was turned off by a neighbor when she was taken to the hospital. The cause of the fire could not be established. For the fire inspector, this remained a big mystery. For a long time he tried to establish the reason with bewilderment, but since there were no reasonable explanations, they simply wrote: "the reason has not been established." The house burned down. Nothing to restore it. All the money went to the funeral, and all the valuables burned down.
After leaving the hospital, she had nowhere to live, and yet there was a long recovery process ahead! No one offered her shelter. Friends shied away from her, and her daughter's friends did not appear again. She lived in a hut by the river until a stranger offered her money for a plot. This money could be enough to buy a small house in the neighboring region, but everything turned out differently. The purchase was made, and he “threw” it with the money. Now for almost a year now she has been homeless at the Kursk railway station, sleeping in the sewer, often climbing the dump of solid domestic waste to find food for herself. He directly connects his current position with the suicide of his daughter.
History 3.
This man died last year. He was in the oncology center with the last stage of cancer. He used to have a good family and three children (oldest daughter and two sons). The man was making good money, and his wife was sitting at home. Everything was going great. The daughter got married, the eldest son studied at the institute, and the youngest was also preparing to enter the medical institute. All his life he wanted to be a doctor, to help and heal people. But for some reason, he couldn't get in that year. The strongest feelings overwhelmed him. The whole family told him that nothing terrible had happened, that he would enter next year, but he became more isolated and worried. And then another catastrophe happened: he was betrayed by his best friend. This friend (if I may say so) began to secretly meet with his girlfriend, and he found out about it ... After the suicide attempt, the young man died for almost two months, being conscious and very painful. During these two months, realizing that he would die, he asked everyone for forgiveness, repented of his act, begged the doctors to save him. The doctors did everything they could, but it was not enough ...
When he died, and he was a common favorite, all the members of the family were in the deepest grief. His mother aged ten years in a few days, his father was constantly crying, his brother, as far as I know, took to drink, his sister tried to help everyone, but she herself was in the deepest depression.
On the ninth day, mother, sister and her husband went to the cemetery. Behind, in the second car, a father and son were driving. And suddenly the first car, which was going close to the dividing strip, was hooked by a KamAZ, which was walking in the opposite direction. Their car was swept into the oncoming lane, where a Maz, a stove truck, crashed into it. The blow was the strongest, the car was soft-boiled, and in conclusion, a reinforced concrete slab from the Maza fell on it.
One can imagine what happened to the father and son, in whose eyes it happened ...
After the funeral of his mother and sister, the following misfortune came: the remaining son was expelled from the university for absenteeism. He began to often disappear from his friends and drink vodka, as he could not remain sober - he could not cope. Moreover, after all the tragedies that befell the family, he became very aggressive, especially when drunk. Not a day went by that he didn't start a drunken brawl. And one day the father is informed that his eldest son died in a drunken brawl.
The father, having buried the last son, was left alone. Five months later, he was diagnosed with cancer. Despite a relatively good prognosis and full treatment, the tumor continued to progress. None of the treatments worked. Oncologists were very surprised by this.
I saw and spoke to him a week before his death. About himself, despite the pain, he did not think. Didn't complain about anything. He only regretted that the lives of all family members had been so stupidly crossed out. He had no doubt that the suicide of his youngest son set off this chain of misfortunes and tragedies, which led to such a terrible ending in just 8 months. He said that immediately after his death, strange things began to happen in the house: incomprehensible sounds, the clinking of dishes, crying at night, a feeling of inexplicable horror among those who were in the apartment (even among random people), a sense of hopelessness with which they met everyday.
Despite this, he did not blame his son, but was very distressed about him and his soul. When a priest came to his ward, he confessed and took communion, and then asked the priest if he could see his youngest son after death. Having received a negative answer, he wept for a long time. On the evening of the same day, he refused dinner, and the next morning the nurse saw that he was already dead.
At the seminars on "Health" and "Love of Wisdom" I already told that from the point of view of healing, our ancestors first divided diseases into mental and spiritual ones, and physical ones are born from both of them.
TO sincere all negative emotions were included, and they were divided into categories:
— nav land(acquisitiveness, greed, bribery, lust, gluttony, etc.) - gives rise to diseases of the gastrointestinal tract and genital area;
—nav water(touchiness, uncertainty in goals, freezing in development, problems, inability to control speech, inability to agree, etc.) - gives rise to diseases of the legs, arms, skin, kidneys;
— nav fire(anger, masturbation, assault, grumpiness, sarcasm, intransigence, etc.) - gives rise to diseases of the liver, gall, skin, blood, settles tumors in the body.
— nav air(dreaming, lack of goal setting, action structure, contempt, stereotyping, stereotyped thinking, development in only one profession, etc.) - gives rise to diseases of the lungs, head, lymph.
But to Spiritual illnesses attributed:
- suicide,
- drug addiction
- gambling addiction
- alcoholism,
- smoking,
- polygamy and polyandry,
- inability to be a mentor for children and family,
- not the continuation of generic skills and not increasing the level of their skills.
Since until 2021, according to the modern calendar, new tribal programs are being worked out, we will also have to face the spiritual diseases of the family, and very soon - in this, 2019. Therefore, in the next articles, we will try to pay more attention to this as a team.
Suicide of relatives
So, if you find out that in your family there were single or repeated facts of suicide, then in your life this may manifest itself not only as a similar craving, but also as a difficulty with other spiritual illnesses.
And also, as one woman writes, that all men (in her case, and women of this type will meet a man with such a disease in the family) are attracted with the same inclinations: they cut their veins, try to hang themselves, etc.
And this is not just the karma of the clan - this is the feat that needs to be accomplished, the failed exam, in which there will be more and more tickets for each subsequent generation.
So the question is: “Well, why me?” - inappropriate, because the repetition of such a disease in 9 generations of the genus leads to its degeneration: the appearance of genetic mutations, infertility, mentally incurable diseases, childhood disabilities, etc. In order to prevent the fading and drying of the family tree, everyone must do their best!
Actions capable of clearing the karma of the family if there was a suicide in the family
1. Discourage suicides- let go of those people who passed away not by God's will, but by their own foolishness (left a violent death).
For these people, it is necessary to perform the rite of Trizna during the year (if there are several such people, then in each rite, commemorate them all). There are special memorial days for this: 30.03-1.04, 14-15.04, 7.05, 29.05, 14-15.07, 7-14.08, 30.08-1.09, 30.09-1.10, 31.10-1.11.
For the ceremony, it is necessary to prepare a funeral meal, set the table, put a candle, put a common dish (if you don’t know how much) or plates according to the number of relatives who died in this way (if you know the number). And also put plates and put food for the living, for those who are in your house.
Have a meal together, before the start of the meal, invite, in your own words, looking into the candle of the souls of these deceased ancestors, show them to their dish (plates) and say:
“Here is food for you, here is holy for you! Eat with us, accept our love. Be filled alive."
After the meal is over, the plates of the living must be removed from the table, leaving only a clean tablecloth, and then open the window or window, hanging a towel on the other side of the window: one end on the street, one end on the windowsill in the house. Wave this white towel out the window 9 times while saying (3 times):
« I wave a towel, but I wish you a good road. Veles God! Help my family: help me guide my soul through Kalinov’s bridge, across the Smorodina river, my soul (say the name, if you know, of the person who died a violent death) to the other side, to Velesov’s meadows, to God’s gates! May it be so!".
After that, the words of the feast for a person are read: these could be appeals to God Veles, there could be special texts of lamentations (see ethnography). For instance:
Appeal to Veles
Remember Veles in your meadows
The ancestor of my honest relative (who was called).
And let from old and young
From every generation
My family will accept it.
Lead him, Velese, into the light of Iria,
Make him eternal memory.
Remember him, in the age of the departed
And all relatives in the flesh,
In the age of the departed and in the age of the dead
And give them the goodness of Iria,
Create an eternal memory for them.
Goy!
After the words of the feast, crying, you express to the Soul or Souls what you want, thank her for the fact that he (she) was, gave lessons for the family, knowledge. Leave food until the morning. In the morning, take out this funeral food and feed it to street animals, birds, bury it under new trees: aspen, willow, viburnum. Can't be thrown away! So it is necessary to do at least 9 funeral days.
2. After 9 feasts, you need to do rite of reconciliation of living relatives, so that between them there is no dope that was in your family. Moreover, you continue the commemoration of suicides for a year.
Ideally, if you do this ceremony on April 19 on the holiday of the god Delight, who was responsible for the ability to enjoy life, or on February 16 and 08 on the holidays of God Start (aka Prove among the Western Slavs), which unites the family.
Among those who now live in the house, everyone's hair, a wax candle, a red woolen thread are taken. It is necessary to weave something like a pigtail from a thread and hair. And seal both ends with wax, while saying:
“Like hair to hair lies, tightly and calmly, so you live, do not know grief and rubbish, do not scold each other, do not hold evil, value each other. Goy!
After that, it is good to clean the space of the house in any conspiracy and in an accessible way.
3. Make a joint action with the whole family: On February 16, on the day of the god Start, who mends the world in the family, the whole family does a general cleaning in the house.
The next time, on May 16 and August 16, to plant trees or flowers on any land in honor of those who died through self-violence, and on November 16, the whole family will again do a general cleaning. And the eldest woman in the family these days in the morning should cook dinner, as for a holiday, and as soon as she salts it, she should say:
"Punch, Patch! Let's fix the life and the way, so that everyone is happy for the other, so that everyone is here until they eat a pood of salt. Goy!
4. In order for grace to return to the family, it is necessary make a charmed blanket. It should contain a piece of rags from the things of each relative living in this house. And you can make such a generic blanket or carpet by collecting a piece of cloth from the clothes of all relatives who are currently alive in the family.
5. And it would be nice in honor of the unity of the family embroider a tribal swearing with the image of the World Tree or, whoever masters it, embroider the so-called self-assembly tablecloth, in honor of strengthening the union of the clan and delivering it from various misfortunes.
This is a large tablecloth embroidered, where there is one single image in the entire length of the tablecloth, this is the World Tree with the image of many fruits, flowers, including various fantastic birds. For instance:
All these drawings of historical swearers are associated with the adoption of Navi in the family.
How to cleanse the family from mental illness you will learn from the material.
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Hello. My grandfather is suicidal. Is it true that for this a curse is imposed on his entire family? If so, where can you read about it? How to honor such people? Thanks Hello!
Indeed, according to church tradition, one cannot pray for suicides. The criminality of this sin lies in the fact that the suicide is indignant against the creative and providential order of the divine and his appointment in our world, arbitrarily ends his life, which belongs not only to him, but also to God, but also to his neighbor, and which was given to him for moral progress, and not for abuse of it, renounces all the duties that lie on him and is not called to the afterlife. The life of every man is a precious gift of God; therefore, whoever arbitrarily takes his own life blasphemously rejects this gift. A Christian laying hands on himself offends God doubly: both as Creator and as Redeemer. Such an act can only be the fruit of complete disbelief and despair in Divine Providence. And whoever is a stranger to faith in God and hope in Him is a stranger to the Church. She looks at the conscious suicide as a spiritual descendant of Judas the traitor who, having denied God and rejected by God, "went and strangled himself" (Matt. 27:5). That is why the suicide is deprived of church burial and commemoration. But the descendants do not bear the curse for the sin of the suicide. In general, children are not responsible for the sins of their parents. When they try to resolve the issue of the consequences for children and direct descendants of the sins of their parents, they quote: I am the Lord Your God, a jealous God, punishing the children for the guilt of the fathers to the third and fourth [kind], who hate Me, and showing mercy to a thousand generations to those who love Me and keep My commandments (Ex. 20: 5-6). Here it is definitely said that the Lord does not punish innocent children for the guilt of the fathers, but only those whose own crime (those who hate Me) is successively connected with the sins of their fathers. This understanding is fully confirmed by the following passages:
- Fathers should not be punished with death for children, and children should not be punished with death for fathers; each must be punished by death for his crime (Deut. 24:16).
- In those days they will no longer say: "The fathers ate sour grapes, and the children's teeth are set on edge," but everyone will die for their own iniquity; whoever eats sour grapes will have set teeth on edge (Jer. 31:29-30). Therefore, do not be afraid - there is no curse on your kind! Pray for your father, who committed suicide, you can only in your private home prayers. You have no right to submit notes about his commemoration in the Church, since the Church does not pray for suicides. God bless you!
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